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Why You Should Get Her Phone Number instead of Taking Her Home

Going for a one night stand? Going for a one night stand?

No. 4 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating”.

When guys are out meeting women on a Friday night, what many are looking for is a one night stand.

It’s a dream for many men to walk in, talk to the most stunning woman in there, and walk home with her.

Nothing wrong with that, today I just want to discuss why it perhaps is better if you went for her phone number.

  • First of all, you put a great deal of pressure on yourself if you have the one night stand mentality. This alone makes you 100 times more likely to fail.
  • It’s well known that you need more than 3 minutes with a girl if you want to take it to the next level the same night. So if you fail your attempt to take her home, you have lost a lot of valuable time and possibly also money.
  • You could have got numbers and emails from tenfold as many women in the same time!
  • Also, the longer you sit with her, the bigger the chances of a “distraction”; a cuter guy approaches her, she gets dragged away by her friends, she has to go the bathroom, or similar.

So if you instead of “sticking around” a woman all night just ask for her phone number, you can meet way more girls, you are going to have more fun, and your chances of actually ending up in someone’s bed gets a lot bigger.

Just tell her that you have to get back to your friends, and as you are walking away, turn around and ask her for her information. It’s that simple.

Good luck.

2 thoughts on “Why You Should Get Her Phone Number instead of Taking Her Home

  1. Kyle

    One in the hand is better than three in the bush. Chances of those number translating to sexual encounters aren’t very high. Sometimes it pays to strike when the iron is hot and get the # afterwards if she was a cool girl.

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  2. Dave

    That is haLARious!!! “It’s well known that you need more than 3 minutes with a girl if you want to take it to the next level the same night.”. That is the funniest thing I’ve read in weeks!

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