Comments on: Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction – Only for Amplifying it

By: victoria

victoria — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 16:48:11 +0000

need a help. there,s this guy i just like,got a galfriend, working in my office but chasing me seriously what shld i do.

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The 12 Undeniable Rules of Successful Dating » Just Keep The Change — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 10:00:58 +0000

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By: send flowers to Philippines

send flowers to Philippines — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 02:53:33 +0000

This post is really cool…its absolutely cool. Thanks for the tips :)

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 20:36:01 +0000

Ah I see JEMi! That’s great. Of course you would have to atleast know the guy through conversation at first… Sorry, I guess I was a little too quick before.

And entertainment is always of high value… You’re very welcome to share a story or two if you’d like :)

Alex

By: JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You.

JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You. — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:39:55 +0000

You know – I’ve never ever had one good experience where I went on a date with a guy that I didn’t already think “hmm, what a cool person.. we should hang out.”

What I meant was I would usually learn about them – for instance – getting to know them at school or through conversations etc..

I can entertain you with horror stories with the people I would go out with to get to know. It would make for some hilarious copy. *smile* Nice people though .. I’m sure..

And yes – first date is not the time to lay it on thick. That can even be a little scary from some guys .. trust me
*squirms*

lol thanks for the reply Alex!

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:27:20 +0000

JEMi,

Because you would at last get bored of it! Comments and compliments from the heart can be the sweetest thing in the world, but it’s just not suitable for a first date.

Otherwise it’s one of those situations where everything just seems to go into a higher realm, where of course you shouldn’t listen to any advice, just follow the natural flow. But this is very uncommon.

Really? Not date a guy you’re not already into? Fair enough… You may lose some good guys this way though.

I would love to start a dating service! Lol!

Always great to hear things from your point of view.

Take care!
Alex

By: JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You

JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 15:35:13 +0000

I’m starting this comment before I read the whole post just to say HEY HEY HEY! I would like flowers, being complimented all night, and all that jazz! Why not?!

But then again, I wouldn’t date someone I didn’t have that initial je ne se quoi with to begin with. Been there, done that, tried again – not working for me.

Ok back to your post.

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Well damn Alex – while you’re at it why dont you start a JKTC Online dating service so you could pair me up with someone who reads your advice?

I’m kidding.

I see where you’re coming from – some guys are just overkill. But then again its never overkill to me when I really really like the person

*thinks about it*

which happens after The Chase. Ok I see your point.

I still want flowers though :-P but thats just me. I’m cool with being a girly girl from time to time! lol

By: Alex

Alex — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 08:01:42 +0000

If she is enough into you, you don’t need any “dates” more than the first one.

I would invite her over..

But if that’s not an option, you need to think about where you stand with her.

Did you kiss? Hold hands?

Hug? Nothing at all?

How is the vibe between you?

take care.

By: Jay

Jay — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 22:23:36 +0000

would you suggest anything for the second date Alex?

By: Alex

Alex — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 11:50:20 +0000

The feeling of having a girl fall in love with you is even better. I promise.

Anyway, what works for you…