Comments on: Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction – Only for Amplifying it

By: Dogman

Dogman — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:52:50 +0000

Holy shit! You totally stole this from David DeAngelo

By: Isabele

Isabele — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 00:51:35 +0000

I disagree! It depends what kind of woman you´re looking for. I think flowers are so romantic.But the man can´t say “I love you” so early because the woman can think he is a liar or maybe impulsive.

By: Tom Scott

Tom Scott — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 15:48:08 +0000

Hey guys,
i need some help.
Would buying flowers for my girlfriend of one year kill the attraction?
thanks,
Tom

By: victoria

victoria — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 16:48:11 +0000

need a help. there,s this guy i just like,got a galfriend, working in my office but chasing me seriously what shld i do.

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By: send flowers to Philippines

send flowers to Philippines — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 02:53:33 +0000

This post is really cool…its absolutely cool. Thanks for the tips :)

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 20:36:01 +0000

Ah I see JEMi! That’s great. Of course you would have to atleast know the guy through conversation at first… Sorry, I guess I was a little too quick before.

And entertainment is always of high value… You’re very welcome to share a story or two if you’d like :)

Alex

By: JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You.

JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You. — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:39:55 +0000

You know – I’ve never ever had one good experience where I went on a date with a guy that I didn’t already think “hmm, what a cool person.. we should hang out.”

What I meant was I would usually learn about them – for instance – getting to know them at school or through conversations etc..

I can entertain you with horror stories with the people I would go out with to get to know. It would make for some hilarious copy. *smile* Nice people though .. I’m sure..

And yes – first date is not the time to lay it on thick. That can even be a little scary from some guys .. trust me
*squirms*

lol thanks for the reply Alex!

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:27:20 +0000

JEMi,

Because you would at last get bored of it! Comments and compliments from the heart can be the sweetest thing in the world, but it’s just not suitable for a first date.

Otherwise it’s one of those situations where everything just seems to go into a higher realm, where of course you shouldn’t listen to any advice, just follow the natural flow. But this is very uncommon.

Really? Not date a guy you’re not already into? Fair enough… You may lose some good guys this way though.

I would love to start a dating service! Lol!

Always great to hear things from your point of view.

Take care!
Alex

By: JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You

JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 15:35:13 +0000

I’m starting this comment before I read the whole post just to say HEY HEY HEY! I would like flowers, being complimented all night, and all that jazz! Why not?!

But then again, I wouldn’t date someone I didn’t have that initial je ne se quoi with to begin with. Been there, done that, tried again – not working for me.

Ok back to your post.

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Well damn Alex – while you’re at it why dont you start a JKTC Online dating service so you could pair me up with someone who reads your advice?

I’m kidding.

I see where you’re coming from – some guys are just overkill. But then again its never overkill to me when I really really like the person

*thinks about it*

which happens after The Chase. Ok I see your point.

I still want flowers though :-P but thats just me. I’m cool with being a girly girl from time to time! lol