You are talking about things here at a very deep level, I like it.

Not once have you given a bland or unnecessary comment – you add great value to this blog. It’s very much appreciated :-)

‘Confidence really only comes from doing.’ It’s not about getting the girls number or the perfect body that counts but the underlying attribute that you will obtain from doing. The greatest gift you will discover, that you never thought you had, is the ability to be strong.

All of these things, pushing through fears, doing what we desire, moving beyond our comfort zone are a means to end. Foolishly some people believe that the end is women but they are short sighted. The far greater end is discovering this attribute (strength) that lies dormant in all of us, just beyond our fears and our thoughts.

Strength is something that has always been with us that but unfortunately few will ever see. The pain that comes from growth is far too much to bear, so they just give up and live far below their potential.

“confidence is knowing that, whatever happens, everything will be allright” A knowing that comes only when you faced difficult and challenging times and come out a stronger person for it. The greatest moments in our lives won’t be ones of joy but of pain.

In these painful, almost unbearable times you will grow the most. They will lead you to that moment when knowing you can handle anything is no longer an idea but a reality. When that happens your fears will wither away and reveal a confident you, the real you.

And Albert, thanks man. Those two things, honesty and acceptance, will always be at the core of what I teach. I’ll have to read up on that Nathaniel Branden, he seems like a wise man… Thanks for your comment as always and take care my friend!
Alex

Thanks! Take care :-)