Comments on: Why Bars may Not be the Best Place to Meet Women http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women Dating Advice for Men Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:41:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jacob http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-95698 Jacob Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:08:20 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-95698 I hate girls. I really do. What the fuck do they want? I just don't get it. I am 5'11, about 175, in good shape (I run, go workout etc), I am double majoring in Philosophy and Economics, I read a lot, I have an okay car, what the fuck? I hate girls. I really do. What the fuck do they want? I just don’t get it. I am 5’11, about 175, in good shape (I run, go workout etc), I am double majoring in Philosophy and Economics, I read a lot, I have an okay car, what the fuck?

]]> By: very true says http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-66114 very true says Thu, 04 Aug 2011 14:18:02 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-66114 as a straight man, the way to meet a good woman is to be introduce to them. it is very hard meeting them on my own when i go out, and i seem to meet the very nasty ones as well.their attitude towards us men have changed badly. you would think going to the book store would be an easy place to meet them, but it is not. if i see a woman that i like i will try to start a conversation with her, but she will walk away from me. i see it happening to other men as well. i do not have that many friends that could introduce me to the women that they know because the ones they know are not worth meeting. i noticed that there are a lot more women out there that are gay, which kind of adds to the problem.are there any good women out there today? as a straight man, the way to meet a good woman is to be introduce to them. it is very hard meeting them on my own when i go out, and i seem to meet the very nasty ones as well.their attitude towards us men have changed badly. you would think going to the book store would be an easy place to meet them, but it is not. if i see a woman that i like i will try to start a conversation with her, but she will walk away from me. i see it happening to other men as well. i do not have that many friends that could introduce me to the women that they know because the ones they know are not worth meeting. i noticed that there are a lot more women out there that are gay, which kind of adds to the problem.are there any good women out there today?

]]> By: anonymous http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-58870 anonymous Tue, 28 Jun 2011 04:00:53 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-58870 meeting women for me is very hard too. i go to these clubs on the weekends and the women out there like to play games. i meet all the nasty ones. they play hard to get. and what makes it even worse they go with the ugliest guys. i know for a fact not to brag but i am a lot better looking than the guys that i see that have the women. these women seem to like ugly guys today. it is also true that there are a lot of lesbians out there which adds to the problem as well. where can us men go to meet a good woman today? if i could find the right one for me it would be like winning the lottery. meeting women for me is very hard too. i go to these clubs on the weekends and the women out there like to play games. i meet all the nasty ones. they play hard to get. and what makes it even worse they go with the ugliest guys. i know for a fact not to brag but i am a lot better looking than the guys that i see that have the women. these women seem to like ugly guys today. it is also true that there are a lot of lesbians out there which adds to the problem as well. where can us men go to meet a good woman today? if i could find the right one for me it would be like winning the lottery.

]]> By: Dae http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-56667 Dae Sun, 12 Jun 2011 19:00:49 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-56667 Hi. Nice article accompanied by equal comments. I am 40, and had been married most of my younger years. Now single since December last year I have entered back into the pickup scene. I will agree it's tough out there, and have learned a few things. I feel I'm average looks with above average build 6ft1 195 lbs athletic build. What I have learned in the past 6 months is it doesn't matter even if your an attractive man. It's how you are perceived. You can spend more time trying with no results why? I've noticed in any avenue (I've tried them all) online dating, bars, just out at the park, through friends.. bla bla the list goes on the one thing that turns women away fast is being overly persistent, and arrogant. Now wait.. you've seen, and heard these guys pick up women constantly so that makes my statement false right? No. It's just an oxymoron that has had me confused for quite some time. I'll try to explain out of my trials, and errors. You have to have some arrogance to be persistent, and both will score if done enough. It's real strait forward. Do it enough and you will score eventually. Now on to the oxymoron. This also turns many women away. Actually more than you could have scored with. Like many have said previously women are usually out to have fun. They get hit on so much, and so often that it is repulsive. Making bars not such a good place to meet a woman in my books. So with that said just showing an intrest through quick meaningful small talk, and moving on works wonders. They noticed you, and your non pushiness set you apart from the rest of the repulsive guys. Did you score right away? Probably not. Could you at a later date, with the same woman? More often than if you were a pushy jerk. Takes time which most uf us guys can't understand. It took me forever to figure this out. Frequent the same place be nice, respectful, talk to everyone, have a good time yourself, and girls will notice you. Small talk with them and eventually the opportunity will arise where you can ask them out on a real date. Women have their minds made up way before they went out. Hence the saying "getting lucky". Hi.
Nice article accompanied by equal comments.
I am 40, and had been married most of my younger years. Now single since December last year I have entered back into the pickup scene. I will agree it’s tough out there, and have learned a few things. I feel I’m average looks with above average build 6ft1 195 lbs athletic build. What I have learned in the past 6 months is it doesn’t matter even if your an attractive man. It’s how you are perceived. You can spend more time trying with no results why? I’ve noticed in any avenue (I’ve tried them all) online dating, bars, just out at the park, through friends.. bla bla the list goes on the one thing that turns women away fast is being overly persistent, and arrogant. Now wait.. you’ve seen, and heard these guys pick up women constantly so that makes my statement false right? No. It’s just an oxymoron that has had me confused for quite some time. I’ll try to explain out of my trials, and errors. You have to have some arrogance to be persistent, and both will score if done enough. It’s real strait forward. Do it enough and you will score eventually. Now on to the oxymoron. This also turns many women away. Actually more than you could have scored with. Like many have said previously women are usually out to have fun. They get hit on so much, and so often that it is repulsive. Making bars not such a good place to meet a woman in my books. So with that said just showing an intrest through quick meaningful small talk, and moving on works wonders. They noticed you, and your non pushiness set you apart from the rest of the repulsive guys. Did you score right away? Probably not. Could you at a later date, with the same woman? More often than if you were a pushy jerk. Takes time which most uf us guys can’t understand. It took me forever to figure this out. Frequent the same place be nice, respectful, talk to everyone, have a good time yourself, and girls will notice you. Small talk with them and eventually the opportunity will arise where you can ask them out on a real date. Women have their minds made up way before they went out. Hence the saying “getting lucky”.

]]> By: frank http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-56424 frank Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:06:28 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-56424 bars are not a good place to meet women. it seems wherever i go i meet all the nasty women today. women today play hard to get and i am not into games.i was married twice and i was a very good man to both of them at the time.now that i am in my mid fifties it is very hard to meet them today. there are a lot more women today that are lesbians which adds to the problem as well. i see it happening to other men as well. i never thought that i would have to compete with women today to find a good normal woman. how disgusting is that? where do you go to find a good woman today. bars are not a good place to meet women. it seems wherever i go i meet all the nasty women today. women today play hard to get and i am not into games.i was married twice and i was a very good man to both of them at the time.now that i am in my mid fifties it is very hard to meet them today. there are a lot more women today that are lesbians which adds to the problem as well. i see it happening to other men as well. i never thought that i would have to compete with women today to find a good normal woman. how disgusting is that? where do you go to find a good woman today.

]]> By: aaa http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-55318 aaa Thu, 02 Jun 2011 04:00:59 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-55318 This is not true. I am a woman and often I go out and no guys talk to me. It really blows. Last time I went out this guy came over to the bar and just stared and stared and didn't say anything at all. Other times guys will gloss over you and just talk to the hottest girl in the bar, and not bother with anyone else. The ones that do talk to me tend to screw it up by being overly pushy. For example, the other day i went to a bar, was having small talk with some friends and laughing. A really cute guy comes up to me. To be honest, he was so sexy that I wouldn't have minded going on a date with him, not to mention more. But he was so pushy. It was like he wanted sex right then and there, he seemed so desperate to get it right away. Then when i gave into a kiss he actually pushed me against the wall. I think he thought he was being sexy but I ended up almost punching him. Regardless I left without his phone number because he was just so aggressive. Had he just politely asked to exchange numbers it would have been fine. Seriously, I would have thrown myself at this guy had he not acted like an asshole. I thought he was hot. Most people just don't even know basic manners. And then they wonder why things don't work out. This is not true. I am a woman and often I go out and no guys talk to me. It really blows. Last time I went out this guy came over to the bar and just stared and stared and didn’t say anything at all. Other times guys will gloss over you and just talk to the hottest girl in the bar, and not bother with anyone else.

The ones that do talk to me tend to screw it up by being overly pushy. For example, the other day i went to a bar, was having small talk with some friends and laughing. A really cute guy comes up to me.

To be honest, he was so sexy that I wouldn’t have minded going on a date with him, not to mention more. But he was so pushy. It was like he wanted sex right then and there, he seemed so desperate to get it right away. Then when i gave into a kiss he actually pushed me against the wall. I think he thought he was being sexy but I ended up almost punching him. Regardless I left without his phone number because he was just so aggressive.

Had he just politely asked to exchange numbers it would have been fine. Seriously, I would have thrown myself at this guy had he not acted like an asshole. I thought he was hot.

Most people just don’t even know basic manners. And then they wonder why things don’t work out.

]]> By: df http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-50380 df Sat, 23 Apr 2011 07:15:51 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-50380 what alex is talking about here is nothing new at all. any guy with a brain knows this already its common sense. a person just needs to learn to read between the lines thats all. first of all u need to know that in a bar womens are usually either just looking to have fun(dancing and drink) thats all and if theyre looking for more (meaning sex) they will usually look for the sexiest guy around and chances are there is lots other choices than u she might want to pick so dont expect anything to happen.If shes only looking for sex there will always be a guy that looks like vin diesel in the bar that she can choose other than u so then your screwed and thats life.lol thats just the way things work what alex is talking about here is nothing new at all.
any guy with a brain knows this already its common sense.
a person just needs to learn to read between the lines thats all.
first of all u need to know that in a bar womens are usually either just looking to have fun(dancing and drink) thats all and if theyre looking for more (meaning sex) they will usually look for the sexiest guy around and chances are there is lots other choices than u she might want to pick so dont expect anything to happen.If shes only looking for sex there will always be a guy that looks like vin diesel in the bar that she can choose other than u so then your screwed and thats life.lol
thats just the way things work

]]> By: df http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-50379 df Sat, 23 Apr 2011 07:09:49 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-50379 I can't believe men havent figured this out already way way long ago.common dont u get it guys?? bars and clubs are a place for Sex and usually a place also for womens to play with theyre powers of attraction.Most womens in there know that most men in there are usually horny and stupid and will do evrything to get laid and that includes making a fool of themselves and giving attention to evry womens in there in the hopes to get something.Most men in bars are dumb as heck and cant get the hint when a women is not interested in them.all they do is contribute to making most womens ego bigger than they already are.If a man wants to get a women in a bar he should at least wait till he gets a sign that a women is interested in him.And that doesnt include just a smile or something.Usually actions tells it all. I can’t believe men havent figured this out already way way long ago.common dont u get it guys??
bars and clubs are a place for Sex and usually a place also for womens to play with theyre powers of attraction.Most womens in there know that most men in there are usually horny and stupid and will do evrything to get laid and that includes making a fool of themselves and giving attention to evry womens in there in the hopes to get something.Most men in bars are dumb as heck and cant get the hint when a women is not interested in them.all they do is contribute to making most womens ego bigger than they already are.If a man wants to get a women in a bar he should at least wait till he gets a sign that a women is interested in him.And that doesnt include just a smile or something.Usually actions tells it all.

]]> By: chris http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-49806 chris Wed, 20 Apr 2011 20:35:54 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-49806 It's hard to meet women in bars because some men try too hard. Just be yourself and have fun with them. If you are looking for love and it's not working in the bar, the problem may that you are trying to force in a situation that's difficult to make an intimate connection. Try the dog park or join a social club instead. It’s hard to meet women in bars because some men try too hard. Just be yourself and have fun with them. If you are looking for love and it’s not working in the bar, the problem may that you are trying to force in a situation that’s difficult to make an intimate connection. Try the dog park or join a social club instead.

]]> By: fooolbag http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women/comment-page-1#comment-47439 fooolbag Fri, 25 Mar 2011 05:15:14 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bars-may-not-be-the-best-place-to-meet-women#comment-47439 learn english. jackass. learn english. jackass.

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