Comments on: Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close Dating Advice for Men Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:41:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: M http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-91796 M Mon, 19 Dec 2011 05:41:28 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-91796 I have to disagree with this. So many women have this vision that bad boys and nice guys are this black and white picture in that "bad boys" are just that and the "nice guys" certainly cant have any "bad boy" traits. That such bs. I consider myself a decent guy but yet have some of the bad boy traits such as I sure as hell don't call women back all the time. I'm not available all the time and also I always do what I want when I want. Yes I'm nice but at the same time I don't bend over backwards for you. But at the same time it absolutely pays to be a "good guy" with some bad because in the end the "good guy" will get her and thus is the reason why you always hear the "bad boys" with getting all kinds of women cause the relationships never ever lasts very long or doesn't even get going past the bedroom. The "bad boys" are usually the one and done guys as in, go home with her, go to her bedroom and either that night yet or the next morning he is kicked out of her house and he is on to the next woman that day or night. There is no long term relationship with the so called "bad boys". The so called "bad boys" are just that and never have the solid, long lasting relationship. I have to disagree with this. So many women have this vision that bad boys and nice guys are this black and white picture in that “bad boys” are just that and the “nice guys” certainly cant have any “bad boy” traits. That such bs. I consider myself a decent guy but yet have some of the bad boy traits such as I sure as hell don’t call women back all the time. I’m not available all the time and also I always do what I want when I want. Yes I’m nice but at the same time I don’t bend over backwards for you. But at the same time it absolutely pays to be a “good guy” with some bad because in the end the “good guy” will get her and thus is the reason why you always hear the “bad boys” with getting all kinds of women cause the relationships never ever lasts very long or doesn’t even get going past the bedroom. The “bad boys” are usually the one and done guys as in, go home with her, go to her bedroom and either that night yet or the next morning he is kicked out of her house and he is on to the next woman that day or night. There is no long term relationship with the so called “bad boys”. The so called “bad boys” are just that and never have the solid, long lasting relationship.

]]> By: PAT http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-88695 PAT Mon, 28 Nov 2011 01:05:39 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-88695 The real reason the bad boy get the girl is because he,s good looking. Women will forgive anything if your handsome; thievery, drug addiction, spousal abuse and even murder. They talk all the time about how looks doesn't matter but in reality it's all that does. Their even worse than men. I know so called smart or intelligent women try to date a guy who has 6 different kids by different women and somehow she thinks this is someone she would want to marry or have kids with. To this mans credit they think very little of this women who doesn't respect herself to realize that this man is worthless, irresponsible, a terrible dad and will leave her alone to raise her family. The real reason the bad boy get the girl is because he,s good looking. Women will forgive anything if your handsome; thievery, drug addiction, spousal abuse and even murder. They talk all the time about how looks doesn’t matter but in reality it’s all that does. Their even worse than men. I know so called smart or intelligent women try to date a guy who has 6 different kids by different women and somehow she thinks this is someone she would want to marry or have kids with. To this mans credit they think very little of this women who doesn’t respect herself to realize that this man is worthless, irresponsible, a terrible dad and will leave her alone to raise her family.

]]> By: Sahara http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-87608 Sahara Thu, 24 Nov 2011 04:13:00 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-87608 Im a woman and in the short term, I just want a bad boy who excites me, but when it comes to a long term relationship I'm interested in the exciting good guys. Sometimes im not even sure why I like bad boys, I think its the confidence and the way they make your blood boil. To all the guys out there, confidence is key when getting women Im a woman and in the short term, I just want a bad boy who excites me, but when it comes to a long term relationship I’m interested in the exciting good guys. Sometimes im not even sure why I like bad boys, I think its the confidence and the way they make your blood boil. To all the guys out there, confidence is key when getting women

]]> By: Star Rebel http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-81837 Star Rebel Tue, 01 Nov 2011 04:27:03 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-81837 Bad Boys are great for weeding out all the immature shallow chicks. Thanks! Bad Boys are great for weeding out all the immature shallow chicks. Thanks!

]]> By: miike http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-70817 miike Thu, 25 Aug 2011 14:55:56 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-70817 Women say just be yourself knowing full well that a man who does this Simply won't do because then he is not being their ideal man. Women are all different why does a man have to conform to women's narrow definition of masculinity. It truly is pathetic. Women say just be yourself knowing full well that a man who does this Simply won’t do because then he is not being their ideal man. Women are all different why does a man have to conform to women’s narrow definition of masculinity. It truly is pathetic.

]]> By: KenC http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-64731 KenC Thu, 28 Jul 2011 15:56:43 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-64731 I do agree with a lot that this article says about women. Let's face it, the ones who want to get treated like shit will deserve to be with an a**hole 24x7. I was with one for a few months and i can honestly say i was never a pushover and not a jerk. I was a decent guy who marched to the beat of my own drum. I can't stand guys that smother their girls. anyway, she was immature and wanted to be with her unemployed, insecure boyfiend. they were meant for each other. You need to find the girl with at least some self esteem that will appreciate the decent (not wuss) kind of guy. I do agree with a lot that this article says about women. Let’s face it, the ones who want to get treated like shit will deserve to be with an a**hole 24×7. I was with one for a few months and i can honestly say i was never a pushover and not a jerk. I was a decent guy who marched to the beat of my own drum. I can’t stand guys that smother their girls. anyway, she was immature and wanted to be with her unemployed, insecure boyfiend. they were meant for each other. You need to find the girl with at least some self esteem that will appreciate the decent (not wuss) kind of guy.

]]> By: waffle e http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-52986 waffle e Sun, 15 May 2011 06:13:12 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-52986 some of this is true. but nothing is completely true or completely false. for example, with this dating advice stuff, it seems it always leads to another site to sell even more unnecessary advice to innocent men, like one is taking advantage of his subordinate. anyways, all this is fine and dandy but doesnt last forever, i graduted from high school 15 yrs ago, and alot of the hot woman in high school who dated jerks, ended up marrying them. those same jerks who were very exciting, unpredictable during the early dating stages would later turn out fat or fatter than their high school days, got married, had kids. the married couple doesnt go out as much, drinks mostly at the bars each weekend, so even adventurous bad boys grow up just like the rest of us and get lazy, are too stressed out from work, and when coming home each day, just sit and watch tv. also there are 2 bad boys in high school and beyond: 1. the bad boy who is confident, good looking or average or ugly, who gets the hot girls and always is with a hot woman. 2. the bad boy who is insecure just like a nice guy, no confidence, never has a girlfriend, or only once in a while. so just because we see a guy out in public that looks badass doenst mean he is badass. also if you see a guy sitting at a table in a bar, leaned back with arms stretched back, you always have to wonder - is he doing that to stretch out in order to be comfortable or is he some dumb*ss who is trying to impress everyone in the bar? some of this is true. but nothing is completely true or completely false. for example, with this dating advice stuff, it seems it always leads to another site to sell even more unnecessary advice to innocent men, like one is taking advantage of his subordinate. anyways, all this is fine and dandy but doesnt last forever,

i graduted from high school 15 yrs ago, and alot of the hot woman in high school who dated jerks, ended up marrying them. those same jerks who were very exciting, unpredictable during the early dating stages would later turn out fat or fatter than their high school days, got married, had kids. the married couple doesnt go out as much, drinks mostly at the bars each weekend, so even adventurous bad boys grow up just like the rest of us and get lazy, are too stressed out from work, and when coming home each day, just sit and watch tv.

also there are 2 bad boys in high school and beyond:

1. the bad boy who is confident, good looking or average or ugly, who gets the hot girls and always is with a hot woman.

2. the bad boy who is insecure just like a nice guy, no confidence, never has a girlfriend, or only once in a while.

so just because we see a guy out in public that looks badass doenst mean he is badass.

also if you see a guy sitting at a table in a bar, leaned back with arms stretched back, you always have to wonder – is he doing that to stretch out in order to be comfortable or is he some dumb*ss who is trying to impress everyone in the bar?

]]> By: Esnaider http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-2#comment-50609 Esnaider Sun, 24 Apr 2011 19:49:53 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-50609 im a teen,and after reading this....it made me become even more confident on what i do,because this is what i've been doing all the time!!!to be TRUE TO MYSELF,and be a balanced(good-cool)guy. thanks alex im a teen,and after reading this….it made me become even more confident on what i do,because this is what i’ve been doing all the time!!!to be TRUE TO MYSELF,and be a balanced(good-cool)guy.

thanks alex

]]> By: Anon. http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-49780 Anon. Wed, 20 Apr 2011 10:53:11 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-49780 I happen to be a female reading this article and some of the comments (got bored a quarter of the way down). I think Alex summed it up well. If the girls are anything like me, they loathe the disrespect, but love the thrill. There's just something chilling about bad boys which makes us women swoon. It is that sly smirk (or surliness), the self confidence, and the mystery. But that appeal only goes so far. Intelligence, respect, and gentleness are equally as sexy as the aforementioned traits. If you can be self confident, mysterious (at first), and a little sly and dangerous, but also have brains, be respectful, and be tender, you will have a much better chance at getting the girl. And yes, I have met a fair few guys with ALL of these traits, so it's not an impossible ask either. My ex boyfriend is a shy guy, which I find totally sexy, because he's passive and withdrawn a lot of the time, ergo, mysterious. But he opens up to me (we're still good friends), and we converse easily, which is just as much a turn on as the mysterious side of him. So, sometimes shy guys can be very, very sexy - but only if you can also be easy to talk to. I happen to be a female reading this article and some of the comments (got bored a quarter of the way down). I think Alex summed it up well. If the girls are anything like me, they loathe the disrespect, but love the thrill. There’s just something chilling about bad boys which makes us women swoon. It is that sly smirk (or surliness), the self confidence, and the mystery. But that appeal only goes so far. Intelligence, respect, and gentleness are equally as sexy as the aforementioned traits. If you can be self confident, mysterious (at first), and a little sly and dangerous, but also have brains, be respectful, and be tender, you will have a much better chance at getting the girl. And yes, I have met a fair few guys with ALL of these traits, so it’s not an impossible ask either.
My ex boyfriend is a shy guy, which I find totally sexy, because he’s passive and withdrawn a lot of the time, ergo, mysterious. But he opens up to me (we’re still good friends), and we converse easily, which is just as much a turn on as the mysterious side of him. So, sometimes shy guys can be very, very sexy – but only if you can also be easy to talk to.

]]> By: tei http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-49702 tei Tue, 19 Apr 2011 10:27:57 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-49702 ur description about bad boys is more sounds like "scum" for me, lol....rather than a bad boy......for example : - He always put himself first. - Abuse the people around him. - He’s extremely arrogant. - Create a lot of drama. and if that what determine a bad boy, and im surely never turned on by bad boys lol the criteria of balance bad boy and nice guy by david shade is described what MAN is for me....., someone who is mature, who know what he wants, confidence both sexualy and mentally, without being ignorant, and having a vision about partnership, friendship and love.... and any kind of guys could grow as this kind of MAN, coz this is not about gen or personality.....but about learning to be a better MAN being. ( sorry for my broken english ) ur description about bad boys is more sounds like “scum” for me, lol….rather than a bad boy……for example :

- He always put himself first.
- Abuse the people around him.
- He’s extremely arrogant.
- Create a lot of drama.

and if that what determine a bad boy, and im surely never turned on by bad boys lol

the criteria of balance bad boy and nice guy by david shade is described what MAN is for me….., someone who is mature, who know what he wants, confidence both sexualy and mentally, without being ignorant, and having a vision about partnership, friendship and love….

and any kind of guys could grow as this kind of MAN, coz this is not about gen or personality…..but about learning to be a better MAN being. ( sorry for my broken english )

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