Comments on: Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close Dating Advice for Men Fri, 30 Jul 2010 16:25:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: James http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-28250 James Thu, 10 Jun 2010 12:04:43 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-28250 Im straight but even I see the attraction to bad boys. I'd probably even consider making love with a dirty rough bad boy. Something very sexy about it. Im straight but even I see the attraction to bad boys.
I’d probably even consider making love with a dirty rough bad boy. Something very sexy about it.

]]> By: Gary Fletcher http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-27669 Gary Fletcher Mon, 10 May 2010 22:00:21 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-27669 I am so tired of hearing about this stereotypical b.s. I am a nice guy and funny as hell. Because society swallows the b.s. that is propogated,many lose out to stupid presumptions and follow the advice of the crowd. Those so called bad boys are part of the crowd and don't have an original thought in their heads.If they did they would not follow the crowd.Actually the people that spout this crap do so just to fit in and must be considered to be mediocre for that reason.I have hollywood good looks and am nice as well. What about Tom Cruise; he's a nice guy and is handsome, so don't judge a man according to the shallow opinions of the huddled masses I am so tired of hearing about this stereotypical b.s. I am a nice guy and funny as hell. Because society swallows the b.s. that is propogated,many lose out to stupid presumptions and follow the advice of the crowd. Those so called bad boys are part of the crowd and don’t have an original thought in their heads.If they did they would not follow the crowd.Actually the people that spout this crap do so just to fit in and must be considered to be mediocre for that reason.I have hollywood good looks and am nice as well. What about Tom Cruise; he’s a nice guy and is handsome, so don’t judge a man according to the shallow opinions of the huddled masses

]]> By: Akshay http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-27297 Akshay Mon, 26 Apr 2010 05:08:27 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-27297 a woman's life usually runs around security and fun..They don't tell you to be Powerful that much that you forget to enjoy the other aspects of life..be energetic and do a lot of exciting things..don't be just a nerd of anything...do things with the face expressions that no one else can do..have a power to change the ambiance where ever you go and don't just be a silent brat who just smiles...even if you smile,there should be a "you" in that who doesn't really give a damn about any thing but at the same time is always busy in what he is up to and someone who can make a girl happy even when all the topics of the world is dead...If you know less topic then better and if you know more topics then be soo fast with them that you completely absorb the entire situation by yourself..but don't be a fight type...remember fights don't make you a man..because you are a man because woman there in this world who are different than you and they don't want you to fight to prove them this by fights.otherwise you would become a cigarette for women..which burns,throws smoke but no satisfaction...many women are living that way because anyway the life runs..also don't get too busy with your friends..these things may make you busy but by the time you will reach in front of the girl you will find that you are already bored of talking and there would be no excitement left in you to spark up the relationship..be completely excited with your work...become the sharpest at it..bring the confidence through it and the inside spark in your eyes and then go to the girls...you will get what you want.because world is a mirror,the way you see it,the way it looks back at you ;) ..but if you want too much power through your friends also and want to get the links for businesses and way of life then sorry...that way you would be drinking and be happy in your boy group and girls in their girl group... and this is what exactly is happening today..but try what i have told...It works...it make you the 'Vampire' and you would be one shining head over all from a girl point of view a woman’s life usually runs around security and fun..They don’t tell you to be Powerful that much that you forget to enjoy the other aspects of life..be energetic and do a lot of exciting things..don’t be just a nerd of anything…do things with the face expressions that no one else can do..have a power to change the ambiance where ever you go and don’t just be a silent brat who just smiles…even if you smile,there should be a “you” in that who doesn’t really give a damn about any thing but at the same time is always busy in what he is up to and someone who can make a girl happy even when all the topics of the world is dead…If you know less topic then better and if you know more topics then be soo fast with them that you completely absorb the entire situation by yourself..but don’t be a fight type…remember fights don’t make you a man..because you are a man because woman there in this world who are different than you and they don’t want you to fight to prove them this by fights.otherwise you would become a cigarette for women..which burns,throws smoke but no satisfaction…many women are living that way because anyway the life runs..also don’t get too busy with your friends..these things may make you busy but by the time you will reach in front of the girl you will find that you are already bored of talking and there would be no excitement left in you to spark up the relationship..be completely excited with your work…become the sharpest at it..bring the confidence through it and the inside spark in your eyes and then go to the girls…you will get what you want.because world is a mirror,the way you see it,the way it looks back at you ;) ..but if you want too much power through your friends also and want to get the links for businesses and way of life then sorry…that way you would be drinking and be happy in your boy group and girls in their girl group… and this is what exactly is happening today..but try what i have told…It works…it make you the ‘Vampire’ and you would be one shining head over all from a girl point of view

]]> By: Victor http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-19555 Victor Tue, 18 Aug 2009 08:04:47 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-19555 Hi guys, this is an interesting article. I have been labeled a bad boy most of my life but in good way because, i was not abusing anyone. Just living my life and just having fun. Bad Boys are manly men who are not afraid to go for what they want. A Jerk is an ass hole and it could someone with a degree and great job. A nice guy is a wussy and boring. It does not matter what level of education, skin colour, car driving or whatever. Its all within you. So what women want is a man and that is where bad boys get to win....i know a lot of married bad boys and its all about balance like Alex put it. Too much of anything is not working. My Uncle is one of them. He is a bad ass and that is to say he is well rounded, confident and does not crap from anyone. So thanks Alex for reminding me... Hi guys, this is an interesting article. I have been labeled a bad boy most of my life but in good way because, i was not abusing anyone. Just living my life and just having fun. Bad Boys are manly men who are not afraid to go for what they want. A Jerk is an ass hole and it could someone with a degree and great job. A nice guy is a wussy and boring. It does not matter what level of education, skin colour, car driving or whatever. Its all within you.
So what women want is a man and that is where bad boys get to win….i know a lot of married bad boys and its all about balance like Alex put it. Too much of anything is not working. My Uncle is one of them. He is a bad ass and that is to say he is well rounded, confident and does not crap from anyone. So thanks Alex for reminding me…

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-17971 Alex Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:18:00 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-17971 Anton, join the forum! You'll fit right in. And Mikey, thanks man. Looking forward to hearing from you! Anton, join the forum! You’ll fit right in.

And Mikey, thanks man. Looking forward to hearing from you!

]]> By: Mikey http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-17679 Mikey Tue, 23 Jun 2009 12:55:48 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-17679 ALEX!! YOU LEGEND! A mate of mine has been trying to tell me all this, and you've finally put it in simple, easy ENGLISH rather than double dutch!! I'll report back in due course (maybe a couple months) and let you know how I'm getting on. Bless you man. (Btw, I'm 18, so I'm not 'worried' just looking for the easier to understand tips). ALEX!! YOU LEGEND! A mate of mine has been trying to tell me all this, and you’ve finally put it in simple, easy ENGLISH rather than double dutch!! I’ll report back in due course (maybe a couple months) and let you know how I’m getting on. Bless you man. (Btw, I’m 18, so I’m not ‘worried’ just looking for the easier to understand tips).

]]> By: Anton http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-14223 Anton Mon, 06 Apr 2009 05:33:33 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-14223 Hi Alex, I'll be honest, i'm only 20 years old, so I'll have to be brief about whatever experience i've had with the subject of dating. I went through an insecure phase in high school like most guys, and now I have a habit of possessing all of the good qualities you've mentioned, but every once in a while, I lose confidence, i let myself become too vulnerable with the ladies i've been in relationships with. That's when things start to go bad. So I guess the question is, how can i let myself be vulnerable around the women i love without eventually seeming too dependent? And yes, i tend to be moody and "unpredictable", which makes handling me, difficult, i know. I feel like i can make, my ex for example, completely fall head over heals for me one moment, and make her angry the next... How do i avoid this problem? Hi Alex,

I’ll be honest, i’m only 20 years old, so I’ll have to be brief about whatever experience i’ve had with the subject of dating.
I went through an insecure phase in high school like most guys, and now I have a habit of possessing all of the good qualities you’ve mentioned, but every once in a while, I lose confidence, i let myself become too vulnerable with the ladies i’ve been in relationships with. That’s when things start to go bad.
So I guess the question is, how can i let myself be vulnerable around the women i love without eventually seeming too dependent?
And yes, i tend to be moody and “unpredictable”, which makes handling me, difficult, i know. I feel like i can make, my ex for example, completely fall head over heals for me one moment, and make her angry the next… How do i avoid this problem?

]]> By: The 12 Rules of Successful Dating » Just Keep The Change http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-8938 The 12 Rules of Successful Dating » Just Keep The Change Fri, 26 Dec 2008 15:12:01 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-8938 [...] read the hugely popular post Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close, I think you will learn a thing or [...] [...] read the hugely popular post Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close, I think you will learn a thing or [...]

]]> By: natasha http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-8435 natasha Fri, 12 Dec 2008 01:32:04 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-8435 Oh Phil,women a bore? lol..maybe some are..or u just havent met any fun ones!"Its more about wealth"whats that about? Im just happy with a decent guy that has a job,treats me good,and has a sense of humour and patience. There is a small number of women that have to have a bad boy type,and like I said when a female matures that isnt what she will want anymore. Oh Phil,women a bore? lol..maybe some are..or u just havent met any fun ones!”Its more about wealth”whats that about? Im just happy with a decent guy that has a job,treats me good,and has a sense of humour and patience. There is a small number of women that have to have a bad boy type,and like I said when a female matures that isnt what she will want anymore.

]]> By: phil http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close/comment-page-1#comment-7949 phil Fri, 28 Nov 2008 14:50:44 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-bad-boys-get-all-the-hot-women-and-nice-guys-dont-even-get-close#comment-7949 When someone is mean or nasty in relationships it hurts more.. people blame themself.Im inbetween nice and bad and i guess i just dont care enough about relationships and women enough for them to want me.I kinda ignore them i prefer to be with the guys as women do honestly bore me.Alot of these bad guys are not bad guys women just think they are because they have a tattoo and drive a car fast lol.I think women have changed though alot of guys with jobs and money can really get any woman they want.ITs more about wealth in this day and age than ..just a simple so called bad boy.. When someone is mean or nasty in relationships it hurts more.. people blame themself.Im inbetween nice and bad and i guess i just dont care enough about relationships and women enough for them to want me.I kinda ignore them i prefer to be with the guys as women do honestly bore me.Alot of these bad guys are not bad guys women just think they are because they have a tattoo and drive a car fast lol.I think women have changed though alot of guys with jobs and money can really get any woman they want.ITs more about wealth in this day and age than ..just a simple so called bad boy..

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