Comments on: What To Do and What To Avoid When That Right Woman Comes By http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by Dating Advice for Men Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:41:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: jake http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-50637 jake Mon, 25 Apr 2011 07:08:40 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-50637 nice post thats remind me something i lived with a girl i used to love or at least thats what i think sometime i think i was just obsessed on her but anyway the point is she came to me and it was nice because in that time i thought i was no worth enought for beauty girl this fact usually happen to almost everybody in this world beauty and uglys all the same, anyway all my life ive been getting with girls at first sight i met them 1 day and at the 4th day im her boyfriend thas it, but i dont consider me better than nobody maybe it just easy enought for me to be funny but the matter start when you put that girl on a pedestal all the fun goes down because you try to be something more in her life without even know her at all and both lose the confidence so you wont annoy her because you think she will get upset and she either think the same thats a big mistake i learned that you most know her before but being careful because if you become her best friend you wont get something with her never, so i read some PUAS articles and i learned that my mistake in all of my relationship was put all of those girls in a pedestal the first 3 days i was friendly cause i never though to get with them but in the 4 day with the hope that they put on me i just raised them to a pedestal and this broke all my relationship almost all in the 2nd week now i met a new girl and im being different changing all my past mistakes and now everything is great because i never put her on a pedestal as you request on your advice and we have 1 month just being friend and she is in love with me thats the best reward when you take the time to know what you want and to know that person you think is better than other ones nice post thats remind me something i lived with a girl i used to love or at least thats what i think sometime i think i was just obsessed on her but anyway the point is she came to me and it was nice because in that time i thought i was no worth enought for beauty girl this fact usually happen to almost everybody in this world beauty and uglys all the same, anyway all my life ive been getting with girls at first sight i met them 1 day and at the 4th day im her boyfriend thas it, but i dont consider me better than nobody maybe it just easy enought for me to be funny but the matter start when you put that girl on a pedestal all the fun goes down because you try to be something more in her life without even know her at all and both lose the confidence so you wont annoy her because you think she will get upset and she either think the same thats a big mistake i learned that you most know her before but being careful because if you become her best friend you wont get something with her never, so i read some PUAS articles and i learned that my mistake in all of my relationship was put all of those girls in a pedestal the first 3 days i was friendly cause i never though to get with them but in the 4 day with the hope that they put on me i just raised them to a pedestal and this broke all my relationship almost all in the 2nd week now i met a new girl and im being different changing all my past mistakes and now everything is great because i never put her on a pedestal as you request on your advice and we have 1 month just being friend and she is in love with me thats the best reward when you take the time to know what you want and to know that person you think is better than other ones

]]> By: Marco Lee http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-46168 Marco Lee Sat, 12 Mar 2011 15:05:48 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-46168 When you meet that kind of woman, sometimes it would be really hard to put her on a pedestal; But yeah that's what a man must enduringly need to do. These are the types where we start really liking after at least a few times of talking to her and/or being around her. What I can say is that. Let that be an advantage, to just really talk to her and engage her. Get to really know each other and that is the chance where you could really develop into a good relationship. When you meet that kind of woman, sometimes it would be really hard to put her on a pedestal; But yeah that’s what a man must enduringly need to do.

These are the types where we start really liking after at least a few times of talking to her and/or being around her. What I can say is that. Let that be an advantage, to just really talk to her and engage her. Get to really know each other and that is the chance where you could really develop into a good relationship.

]]> By: Girl http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-45874 Girl Thu, 10 Mar 2011 21:09:03 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-45874 :-D Great! Finally someone who seems to get it! Yes, I believe it`s quite right that the women described here do feel embarrassed and will quickly withdraw when men start adoring them too much. Why? well, it`s simple: these women don`t see themselves as being overly fantastic but generally are authentic and mostly honest enough to see themselves as who they really are. If a man now says and does things which are fully out of proportion, these women will only understand that the man did not take the trouble to look at them properly and would also not trouble themselves in future! And who would like that? Most women would like to meet a guy who they can trust, laugh with, share good and bad times with and not somebody who seems to mistake them for somebody there are not. So, yes, approach the woman you believe might be the one and carefully but openly start a conversation and make her laugh - and emember: shyness is also very attractive!! :-D Great! Finally someone who seems to get it! Yes, I believe it`s quite right that the women described here do feel embarrassed and will quickly withdraw when men start adoring them too much. Why? well, it`s simple: these women don`t see themselves as being overly fantastic but generally are authentic and mostly honest enough to see themselves as who they really are. If a man now says and does things which are fully out of proportion, these women will only understand that the man did not take the trouble to look at them properly and would also not trouble themselves in future! And who would like that? Most women would like to meet a guy who they can trust, laugh with, share good and bad times with and not somebody who seems to mistake them for somebody there are not.
So, yes, approach the woman you believe might be the one and carefully but openly start a conversation and make her laugh – and emember: shyness is also very attractive!!

]]> By: Franky http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-41002 Franky Thu, 27 Jan 2011 17:01:44 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-41002 With a line like that, even if i got a small smile back, i'd have to go "haha, ok that was terrible" afterwards just so she doesn't think that i think it is a real line. With a line like that, even if i got a small smile back, i’d have to go “haha, ok that was terrible” afterwards just so she doesn’t think that i think it is a real line.

]]> By: Kevin http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28595 Kevin Tue, 22 Jun 2010 21:45:17 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28595 Great post! The part I really dig about this is that the best option is to treat her as an equal, none of the put her on a pedestal b.s. I see guys do that all the time, as I know you do to, and it's really discouraging. Usually I just sit back and watch them crash and burn. You are absolutely right about a beautiful woman wanting someone who can communicate with them and offer them something. They've been praised and ogled over their entire life. Anyway, nice stuff. I'll definitely be subscribing to your site. Great post! The part I really dig about this is that the best option is to treat her as an equal, none of the put her on a pedestal b.s. I see guys do that all the time, as I know you do to, and it’s really discouraging. Usually I just sit back and watch them crash and burn.

You are absolutely right about a beautiful woman wanting someone who can communicate with them and offer them something. They’ve been praised and ogled over their entire life.

Anyway, nice stuff. I’ll definitely be subscribing to your site.

]]> By: Jono http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28137 Jono Mon, 07 Jun 2010 00:37:45 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28137 Great article Alex. Pretty sure almost every guy can relate to this one. Keep the good stuff rolling in. Great article Alex. Pretty sure almost every guy can relate to this one.
Keep the good stuff rolling in.

]]> By: Dayton http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28109 Dayton Sat, 05 Jun 2010 21:16:58 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28109 I really like this website, great advice and nice articles to read, thanks :D I really like this website, great advice and nice articles to read, thanks :D

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28107 Alex Sat, 05 Jun 2010 15:59:27 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28107 Hey Alex, Yeah, teasing beautiful girls usually works great since they are not as used to guys not being as clingy and needy around them. I like a lot of things about and from 'the community', but there is also a lot of stuff that I do not like or even despise. Hey Alex,

Yeah, teasing beautiful girls usually works great since they are not as used to guys not being as clingy and needy around them. I like a lot of things about and from ‘the community’, but there is also a lot of stuff that I do not like or even despise.

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28106 Alex Sat, 05 Jun 2010 15:30:33 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28106 These girls get hit on so much, so don't come across as another one of "those" guys. Be different and spontaneous. That will put you above the rest of the guys. I actually think its easier to get a beautiful girl becuase the teasing I do works better since they have heard less of it. Why don't you like pua? They have worked for me like Alex Coulson. These girls get hit on so much, so don’t come across as another one of “those” guys. Be different and spontaneous. That will put you above the rest of the guys. I actually think its easier to get a beautiful girl becuase the teasing I do works better since they have heard less of it. Why don’t you like pua? They have worked for me like Alex Coulson.

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/what-to-do-and-what-to-avoid-when-that-right-woman-comes-by/comment-page-1#comment-28102 Alex Sat, 05 Jun 2010 13:44:49 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=1013#comment-28102 Hey Sebastyne, thanks for stopping by! I get what you are saying, but I must defend this little 'line' or what you call it anyway. This without having tried it out, though. I think it can be very charming if executed right, but only time will tell... :-) Alex Hey Sebastyne, thanks for stopping by!

I get what you are saying, but I must defend this little ‘line’ or what you call it anyway. This without having tried it out, though. I think it can be very charming if executed right, but only time will tell… :-)

Alex

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