Comments on: The One Thing You Absolutely Must Do to Have Success With Women http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women Dating Advice for Men Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:41:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Lee http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-26292 Lee Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:33:48 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-26292 Alot of the women I have dated in the past, I got them initially from eye contact. We would lock eyes, and look away, then a minute later, or a few minutes later, we would do it again longer. When I DID go up to her, I didnt care what happened, if she liked me or not, I have strong inner belief that I AM THE PRIZE. lol So i pretty much would say anything to her, but always when I said something, the girl would smile big or giggle as if she was starstruck and happy I actually told her something. This happened alot to me with different women. But your mising the fact that you cant FOCUS on eye contact too much in your mind, or you will be paranoid and awkward. Be like giving a bear a ps3 controller in front of a fkn tv. You will always do eye contact creepy then. It;s gotta be casual and normal. Alot of the women I have dated in the past, I got them initially from eye contact. We would lock eyes, and look away, then a minute later, or a few minutes later, we would do it again longer. When I DID go up to her, I didnt care what happened, if she liked me or not, I have strong inner belief that I AM THE PRIZE. lol So i pretty much would say anything to her, but always when I said something, the girl would smile big or giggle as if she was starstruck and happy I actually told her something. This happened alot to me with different women.

But your mising the fact that you cant FOCUS on eye contact too much in your mind, or you will be paranoid and awkward. Be like giving a bear a ps3 controller in front of a fkn tv. You will always do eye contact creepy then. It;s gotta be casual and normal.

]]> By: jerome http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-26026 jerome Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:30:14 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-26026 VERY INTERESTING PIECE, I’M GLAD I CHECKED IT OUT. THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW TO GROW ON. VERY INTERESTING PIECE, I’M GLAD I CHECKED IT OUT. THERE’S ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW TO GROW ON.

]]> By: Linda http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-20027 Linda Tue, 01 Sep 2009 07:17:14 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-20027 Men would have more long term success with women if they just 'listened' to what she was 'really' saying! Men would have more long term success with women if they just ‘listened’ to what she was ‘really’ saying!

]]> By: Bret Hollander http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-18182 Bret Hollander Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:15:34 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-18182 A common reason for a girl to break up with a guy is that he was too much of a follower. A woman’s mood may constantly change, and she has a lot of whims. If the guy follows her whims, she’ll lose attraction for him. A woman will say and do things based on a negative emotion she’s feeling at the moment, and if you react the wrong way, she’ll lose attraction for you. Although a woman’s mood fluctuates, it’s up to you to have a calm, stable inner state so that she too can feel calm, stable and safe with you. The first step to regaining your power after a woman has left you is to break out of the state she wants you to be in right now. What does she want? Since she’s broken up with you, she wants you to feel lost and lonely. That way you are completely unattractive to her and she can feel okay with her new life without you. She wants to have no reason to be with you anymore. She wants you to be the repulsive beta male. This is the secret psychology of human beings. Knowing how we think gives us great power. A common reason for a girl to break up with a guy is that he was too much of a follower. A woman’s mood may constantly change, and she has a lot of whims. If the guy follows her whims, she’ll lose attraction for him. A woman will say and do things based on a negative emotion she’s feeling at the moment, and if you react the wrong way, she’ll lose attraction for you. Although a woman’s mood fluctuates, it’s up to you to have a calm, stable inner state so that she too can feel calm, stable and safe with you.

The first step to regaining your power after a woman has left you is to break out of the state she wants you to be in right now. What does she want? Since she’s broken up with you, she wants you to feel lost and lonely. That way you are completely unattractive to her and she can feel okay with her new life without you. She wants to have no reason to be with you anymore. She wants you to be the repulsive beta male. This is the secret psychology of human beings. Knowing how we think gives us great power.

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17970 Alex Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:16:09 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17970 I actually really like your idea with the dog Scott - it reinforces the idea to take baby steps to everything you want to accomplish. Kudos on that and thanks for your comment man! :-) I actually really like your idea with the dog Scott – it reinforces the idea to take baby steps to everything you want to accomplish.

Kudos on that and thanks for your comment man! :-)

]]> By: Scott D http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17907 Scott D Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:54:49 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17907 Eye contact is good in all sorts of scenarios. It is a necessity at job interviews like Brent mentioned, as well as when you are meeting someone for the first time, whether it's a guy or girl. If you seem unable to hold eye contact, you need to practice. A good way to start is with your dog, as outlandish as that sounds. Most dogs have a tendency to avoid eye contact, and by trying to hold it with your own dog you'll gain confidence that you can lock eyes without looking away first. Then move on to people you know, friends and family. It's not a staring contest of course, but hold their eyes when you speak and when you greet them. After enough time you'll see eye contact is a small thing that gains you a lot of respect from your peers. Eye contact is good in all sorts of scenarios. It is a necessity at job interviews like Brent mentioned, as well as when you are meeting someone for the first time, whether it’s a guy or girl.

If you seem unable to hold eye contact, you need to practice. A good way to start is with your dog, as outlandish as that sounds. Most dogs have a tendency to avoid eye contact, and by trying to hold it with your own dog you’ll gain confidence that you can lock eyes without looking away first. Then move on to people you know, friends and family. It’s not a staring contest of course, but hold their eyes when you speak and when you greet them. After enough time you’ll see eye contact is a small thing that gains you a lot of respect from your peers.

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17969 Alex Mon, 29 Jun 2009 15:14:01 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17969 William and Mario, there are no rules for this. BUT - I would say that a smile <em>done wrong</em> can ruin the mood a little. So once again, as to most questions, the answer is: it depends. A little sly smile can make the whole thing sexier, but it can also be creepy. So it is your job to feel the situation and do the right thing. I'm sure you both do, so just keep doing what works! Take care guys, Alex William and Mario, there are no rules for this.

BUT – I would say that a smile done wrong can ruin the mood a little. So once again, as to most questions, the answer is: it depends.

A little sly smile can make the whole thing sexier, but it can also be creepy. So it is your job to feel the situation and do the right thing.

I’m sure you both do, so just keep doing what works!

Take care guys,
Alex

]]> By: Mario http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17895 Mario Mon, 29 Jun 2009 08:42:35 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17895 I normally smile after we are both looking into eacothers eyes . should I not? should I wait for her to smile first or what? I normally smile after we are both looking into eacothers eyes . should I not? should I wait for her to smile
first or what?

]]> By: William http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17857 William Sun, 28 Jun 2009 11:25:37 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17857 Hi Alex Great article again. I'm pretty good with eye cntact, I just start smiling when I'm gazing into the ladies eyes.. is that normal? Good/bad? Will Hi Alex

Great article again.

I’m pretty good with eye cntact, I just start smiling when I’m gazing into the ladies eyes.. is that normal? Good/bad?

Will

]]> By: Alex http://www.justkeepthechange.com/the-one-thing-you-absolutely-must-do-to-have-success-with-women/comment-page-1#comment-17967 Alex Sat, 27 Jun 2009 22:58:28 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=804#comment-17967 You're absolutely right Brent - looking someone in his eyes also works in a business environment on a job interview. I would acutally go as far as to argue that looking someone in his eyes works in every communication between two human beings. Thanks for your comment! Alex You’re absolutely right Brent – looking someone in his eyes also works in a business environment on a job interview. I would acutally go as far as to argue that looking someone in his eyes works in every communication between two human beings.

Thanks for your comment!
Alex

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