The One Thing You Absolutely Must Do to Have Success With Women
There is one trick – known by many, used by few – which, if used correctly, works like a charm every time.
It’s called looking her in her eyes.
Ever since I have given women intense eye contact while being with them, my love life has completely transformed.
Old, rugged sex without passion suddenly turns into hot all-night sessions.
Now don’t get me wrong – there’s more to women than just looking them in their eyes. It’s not a magic trick, but it is a necessity.
And not all eye contact works the same – a creepy stare is for many females one of the biggest turn offs. So read on, and learn how to give a woman some sexy eye contact. It’s one of the most important things you’ll ever learn.
Why eye contact works
There is a big difference between locking eye contact and staring. Staring is creepy, eye contact is sexy.
I have a little theory that the eyes are the window into the soul. When you look intensely into someone eyes, you actually “get” a little bit of them in return.
Try and notice the next time you watch a show where someone gets interviewed. If it’s a skilled interviewer, there’s a big chance that he won’t look at any other place than at the interviewed persons eyes. Most likely, he will rarely blink, either.
This behavior stems, like almost everything else, from our caveman days. One of the strongest forms of communication is eye contact, and when deciding which man was the alpha man, it was most likely through something like who looked away last.
I don’t say that they had competitions with this or anything like that, it’s more of a subconscious thing. It’s used the same way today. I’m pretty sure, that in your company, the chubby secretary gives you less eye contact than your boss or another, more powerful, person.
To hold a gaze is simply a sign of dominance and leadership – and you can use that to your advantage.
A woman will instantly see you as a confident alpha male if you give her strong eye contact through the room, down the hall, or when you talk to her. It’s written in her genes. It’s a classic sign of a wussy if you can’t hold eye contact for more than a few seconds – we all now that guy; fiddling with his fingers, looking away nervously, stuttering. Don’t be him :-)
Holding eye contact also makes you quite vulnerable and penetrable – that’s why no one looks each other in the eyes in the metro or in any public transport. It’s an open invitation between two human beings.
How to do eye contact just right
There are a couple of things you do not want to do. First of all is that, when you have locked eye contact, you do not look away before she does. And even if she does, ask yourself what you will gain by looking away.
Most likely, you have everything to win by holding the eye contact and everything to lose by looking away.
Eye contact does not only signal confidence, it also signals interest. Most women love a good listener – and a strong gaze is a huge sign of just that. Your attention is with her and with no one else; in other words, you make her feel special and important.
Confidence + interest = instant sex appeal.
Better is, when you lock eye contact, you force yourself to only listen to her. No distractions – just you and her. That’s sexy as hell. Ask any women out there.
Here’s how to hold that eye contact we should all be striving for:
- Pick one eye and hold eye contact at that. Find out which eye works the best – believe it our not, but there is usually different “energy” between the two eyes. One is usually “hotter”.
- Try to “feel through” her.
- Listen intensely while she is talking.
- Relax at the same time. Don’t strain yourself or hold tension in any muscles.
- DON’T look away. You have nothing to gain and everything to lose by doing so.
- Breathe. Always breathe. Through the nose, nice and deep… Ahh.
That’s it. A bulletproof recipe for success with women. Now get out there and give women some sexy eye contact you stud!
By the way…
I just found a little experiment done by my friend David Shade. It’s a article on the website Fastseduction.com, and I really think that you’ll like it. Eye contact experiment by David shade.
I’ll also be gone for about two weeks on holidays – take care guys, and make me proud!
Image by David Urbanke.