
“Maybe in the next post you can cover what to do/not to do when your ex does contact you. I’m in the boat right now and not sure what to make of this unexpected ‘how are you?’ from her.”
This was the comment on the last post 7 Ways to Stop Waiting For Your Ex to Text or Call left by my name brother Alex.
As I have already promised, I am going to listen even more to my readers, and well, here you go.
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I have done it many times: I and my girlfriend broke up, now she’s my ex, and I am kind of over her.
I still think about her, though, and somewhere, I still want her.
Not in the way of driving to her place with a bunch of flowers and confessing my love, no, it’s more like I hope that one day she’ll call me and tell me that she also still wants me.
There’s just one thing… The day never comes.
Being in that is place is what I call the “grey land”, and it’s a very dangerous place.
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We’ve all seen it happen way too many times. You’re out with your friends enjoying a few beers when a group of girls walks in. The venue is perfect, the night feels good, and you know that if you and your friends were to walk up and start talking with these girls the night would be, well, magical.
You lean into your friends saying, “Guys, see those girls over there?”
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OK, so 2009 has been up and running for about a week. If you are a regular internet reader, you have probably read dozens of articles about how you can make 2009 your best year yet.
They tell you to do this and do that, and in reality, it’s a lot of talk with no action.
And see, I am a man of action. I stand up to my word.
So I am going to take the stress of your shoulders and put it on mine to make 2009 your best year ever.
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There are no rules when it comes to dating. Make up your own. Do what works for you. Don’t do what some dude on the internet tells you to do. Take it into consideration, and then take it from there. Got it? Good.
Although there are ‘no rules’, it is generally a good idea to follow some ideas and some principles. Here are 12 of them for your reading pleasure.
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Note from Alex: Hey Guys, this is a guest post from Alex Strandberg over at Inner Game Reframe, and a pretty good one indeed. Read it, and go check his site out! Alex, they’re all yours…
Hello Just Keep The Change readers! Thanks for stopping by, and thank you Alex for lending me some writing space over here. Let’s get down to business, shall we?
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This post is about change. Personal change. Self-improvement.
Cause’ that’s what this whole ‘getting better with girls’ thing is all about anyway. Change.
So how do you do it best? Most efficient? Smartest? Quickest? And is quick necessarily good? Dive in for some hot shot answers…
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Who doesn’t want to be sexy as hell, exceedingly attractive and absolutely confident?
This article will tell you how. And it’s easier than you probably thought. But not easy in the ‘no-effort’ way.
No, it’s more like easy in the ‘simple to write- harder to do’ way.
The title of this post was inspired by the relatively new Woody Allen movie “Vicky Cristina Barcelona”. Actually, the whole post is inspired by that movie. You’ll see why in a minute.
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If you are like me, you have been to too many good parties that just wasn’t fun – they may have been for everybody else, but you were kind of miserable.
Not because you had some odd food and had a stomach pain or anything of that sorts, it was more like you were feeling misplaced, ignored and alone.
This might be a too dramatic picture to paint, but you know, ‘exaggeration gains learning’.
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It has been 15 minutes since you sent her a text. You just said that you had a great night last night, and asked when you would see her again. You have read it a couple of times after you sent it – was it any good? Could you have done better?
30 minutes passes. You have been checking your cell phone like a maniac. Why hasn’t she replied?!
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