dinner dates suck

Besides a lot of questions on relationships, I am also getting quite a few questions on dates. Seems like most guys handle all the stuff in between the two pretty good?

Nonetheless, today I want to talk about the subject of dinner dates.

A dinner date is the most common type of date in the world today - and that’s both its positive and negative side.

What I mean by that is that the dinner date is very predictable. You kind of know what you get, and the only real difference in one is whether you get a kiss at the end of the night or not.

What you do know though, is that it’s going to drain your wallet pretty quick, especially if you go on lots of dates.

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having a skill

Hey guys! Just as my last post, I am writing this on a laptop in Sweden. I am currently enjoying a vacation, so that’s why these last two posts haven’t been of substanstial length. Bear over with me, I’ll be back in a few days.

Today I want to take a minute and talk about the importance of skill.

Personally, I think its alfa-omega to be really good at something for succeeding in life.

For me it doesn’t really matter if you’re a fantastic singer, a great flute player, an amazing runner or the world’s best juggler - it just matters that you stand out from the crowd.

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pissoir

In this post I’m going to talk a little about confidence and humour, how they can be combined, and how and when (not) to use them.

Asking a girl something like “Did you just check out my ass?!” just out of the blue shows her that you have very two important values as a man; confidence and humour.

At the same time, you also show that you understand social dynamics, in the sense that it should be YOU who was checking out HER ass, and not the other way around. This is great stuff.

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kissing mistakes

This is part two of the 5 tips from 5 women series.

In this part I have asked the exact same 5 women about what a bad kiss is and as a summary I’ll write up the mistakes you can avoid making.

I asked them:

What’s a bad kiss to you?

Pam:
Unfortunately, a bad kiss can be found in many variations. Personally, I think that the worst one is what I call the spinning propeller - where his tongue is just splashing around, not knowing where it’s going.

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Written on Sunday 2 Mar by Alex Kay

How To Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend

ex girlfriend

This is the number one question I get asked most of the time - right after the question on how to win her back.

And it’s difficult to answer. How do you get over your ex girlfriend?

I guess that we have all been there at some point in our lives.

Relationship starts. Everything’s good. Suddenly, everything isn’t so good. And you break up. That’s life!

I have had my share of it, so I speak from experience here.

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Double Your Dating
In this post, I am going to review the popular ebook Double Your Dating.

I have talked about it before here at the blog in my post called “Get Started Being with the Women You Desire and Live a Better Life“.

Just like I said there, this book was the first I read of its kind, and I owe much of my dating success to it.

The first edition of Double Your Dating was written by David DeAngelo in 2001. Back then, it outlined all the techniques he himself had used to do just that, double his dating.

He wrote it as a kind of personal diary for his dating life, and then sent it around to a few buddies.

But these few buddies soon became many, and the book was quickly spread to men all over the world.

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Start Living
Truth is, most guys don’t live the life they want.

Something is always wrong. Friends, work, family, girlfriends, whatever.

But let me tell you one thing: All of these problems seem so much easier to solve if you know that you can go out at anytime, and go up and talk to any girl you want, and get her number.

And not only that. You also know that you can get on a date with her. And you know that there’s a big chance that this date leads to more… Physical contact between you.

It’s really a fantastic feeling. And I want you to have it too!

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Written on Friday 15 Feb by Alex Kay

Valentine’s Day, a Few Thoughts

valentines
Newspaper columns, blog posts, small talk at the local cafĂ©; it’s everywhere.

Valentine’s Day. It seems that you have two choices regarding this “special” day in the middle of February. Either you love it, or you hate it.

The arguments usually go something like this:

Typical Negative side: “You should be able to do romantic things every day, and not rely on some specific commercial day.”

Typical Positive side: “It reminds us of love” or “is a great reason to do something special.”

I really see where both schools of thought comes from. But I can’t say I agree more with one than the other.

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passionate kiss
A good kiss is like a dance - the man has to be in charge, but if you don’t play well together, it doesn’t work.

That’s one of the things, 5 things, 5 of my girlfriends (friends that happen to be of the female gender) shares in the following short article.

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strawberry
Yesterday I got this really big urge to go get a McFlurry at my local McDonald’s… I know, I know. I’m bad, but it’s not my fault McFlurry’s are soo good?

Anyway, I got my ice cream, and sat down at a table to enjoy it.

I was almost finished, when this really amazing smell walked right by my nose.

I looked up, and found myself drooling over the most stunning girl I have ever seen (in a McDonald’s). She was around 1.76, long blonde hair, and a really mysterious and sexy face.

I quickly threw the rest of my McFlurry away, and walked right behind her up to the counter.

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