Hey guys! This is two real stories about how two real guys got over their ex girlfriends. I just wanted to post this to show you that it is possible, and that there is light at the end of the tunnel. There always is. Click to Continue Reading →
Here’s a quick thing for you to do the next time you are walking a place where there are people that you have never seen or met before. The street, the mall, the park – every place will do.
See the beauty in everyone.
If you’re a (straight) man, which both my statistics and guts tell me that you are, of course you’d pay most attention to the women you see.
You have most likely trained your negative eye for the most part of your life, always looking for fault and mistakes.
I bet that I could show you a picture of almost anyone, and with in seconds, you could find something that could look better. It could be a wrinkle, a zit, a hair sitting ‘wrong’, a crooked nose… And the list goes on. Click to Continue Reading →
Massaging your partner or girl is a wonderful way to explore her body and get to know her on a more profound and deeper level.
It’s one of the most loving acts one can conduct. Everyone likes getting a massage. And even more so if it’s done by a person whom they trust, since a massage can be a very intimate thing.
But a great massage is better than a good massage, and that’s exactly what you will learn today. There is more to a massage than the type of strokes that you use. It’s not just technique. It’s the complete experience… Click to Continue Reading →
Let’s face it – all of us bear around with some kind of pain. For a lot of you reading this, it will be related to an ex girlfriend. Lost love, so to say.
And that’s why I talk a lot about acceptance. I see acceptance (and willingness) as key concepts when it comes to living with pain – and that means, key concepts to living at all.
Today I want to give you an example on how you can be willing (and accepting). For some of you, the essence of these concepts might be a bit hard to grasp, but with this example, I hope to make it more real, clear and applicable for you. Click to Continue Reading →
To be a just keep the change man, you have to practice living with an open heart, even if it hurts.
Living with an open heart means that you experience all experiences fully without denying anything. It is like looking fear in the eye – you stand up for yourself and take up the fight.
The weak man
The weak man will always try to deny his pain. Whether it’s emotional or physical, he will always try to think of anything but the pain.
When running, he will distract himself when it starts to hurt. When faced with criticism, he will try to move on, move around it, forget it or deny it. When a weak man loses something, or someone, he will suppress his feelings; his pain. He will look the other way and distract himself. Click to Continue Reading →
Confidence is a strange thing. Some people seem to have it, and some do not. In one moment, you can feel like the most confident man on the planet; in the next, you can feel so low that you don’t even want to get out of bed the next morning.
But why? What is this confidence, and why does it have such a huge impact on our lives? How can we use it to our advantage? These are some of the questions that I will be answering with my next 1000 words. Read on. Click to Continue Reading →
I guess that I have hinted at it before, but now it’s official: I’m writing an ebook on getting over your ex girlfriend.
So what would you like to see?
I’m thinking personal stories (with comments, maybe?), interviews, tips, tricks, techniques, mindsets, concrete action-plans, and all that’s in between.
But I would like to hear what you think. Give me what you got; what would you like to read? Or what would be redundant?
Of course, if I use your suggestion, I’ll send the book to you for no cost whatsoever once it’s published.
How’s that for taking two minutes of your time? Click to Continue Reading →
If you ever feel that you are stuck here in life, be it in a relationship, a job or in a simple chore like doing the dishes, this article is for you.
I will outline a very simple strategy to take action, one that can not fail. Do this one thing and you will never be completely stuck. Click to Continue Reading →
Note from Alex: This is a guest post from a woman. Her name is Nicola Lees, and she has been so kind to write about first dates and what to do (and don’t do!) on those. She gives some advice you can’t go too wrong on, so I’ll lend the word to Nicola…
As a single woman in London, I’ve been on a few first dates, most of them bad. They ranged from a guy who lied about his job (I didn’t care about his job, but I did care that he’d been dishonest), to one who was so nervous he couldn’t speak, and a man who neglected to inform me that I was on a date – I thought I was going to a business meeting. Dating, as far as I was concerned, was torture. Click to Continue Reading →
What’s up guys!
I am going on a vacation here over the holidays; snowboarding in the alps.
That’s all great, but it has one downside: I have to let you, my dear readers, behind. I know, I know… It’s sad. But I am going to miss you :-)
I will be back at the 15th of february, but don’t expect too much of me that day after a 20+ hour busride through Europe!
So untill I get back, I have a suggestion for you:
Come on over and join the new forum! Click to Continue Reading →
