Dating Advice for Men
Written on Thursday 17 Apr by Alex Kay
Being a man. What does that really mean?
For me, it is being completely congruent with yourself. Being confident, powerful, strong and fun to be around.
A real man doesn’t hide anything from anyone. He doesn’t have a “dark side”.
He understands social dynamics, and he just have this energy around him that makes people like him.
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Written on Sunday 13 Apr by Alex Kay
“I am not good looking enough to be with her”. “I am too fat”. “I’m not funny enough”.
Self limiting beliefs - your worst enemy when it comes to dating.
Ever experienced one of the above thoughts yourself? I know you have.
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Written on Sunday 6 Apr by Alex Kay
What most men don’t realize is that men and women don’t talk the same language.
99% of guys only communicate on a verbal level. We take and understand everything exactly as we hear it.
99% of women also communicate on another level, a level that most guys don’t ever get to experience.
Not only do they hear and understand what is being said verbally; they also take into consideration what was behind it.
This is for me the biggest difference in the way we as humans communicate. We have all heard the phrase “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”.
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Written on Monday 31 Mar by Alex Kay
Today I want to talk about a topic that really fascinates me - the correlation between dating and evolutionary biology.
As a human, basically and looking at the big picture, you only have two goals in life. And that is to survive until you can reproduce yourself (and then do it).
Now there are lots of factors in both of these goals, but on paper it shouldn’t be too hard. As a man, you just have to have access to women. And have a working “tool”. That’s it.
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Written on Monday 24 Mar by Alex Kay
Besides a lot of questions on relationships, I am also getting quite a few questions on dates. Seems like most guys handle all the stuff in between the two pretty good?
Nonetheless, today I want to talk about the subject of dinner dates.
A dinner date is the most common type of date in the world today - and that’s both its positive and negative side.
What I mean by that is that the dinner date is very predictable. You kind of know what you get, and the only real difference in one is whether you get a kiss at the end of the night or not.
What you do know though, is that it’s going to drain your wallet pretty quick, especially if you go on lots of dates.
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Written on Thursday 20 Mar by Alex Kay
Hey guys! Just as my last post, I am writing this on a laptop in Sweden. I am currently enjoying a vacation, so that’s why these last two posts haven’t been of substanstial length. Bear over with me, I’ll be back in a few days.
Today I want to take a minute and talk about the importance of skill.
Personally, I think its alfa-omega to be really good at something for succeeding in life.
For me it doesn’t really matter if you’re a fantastic singer, a great flute player, an amazing runner or the world’s best juggler - it just matters that you stand out from the crowd.
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Written on Monday 17 Mar by Alex Kay
In this post I’m going to talk a little about confidence and humour, how they can be combined, and how and when (not) to use them.
Asking a girl something like “Did you just check out my ass?!” just out of the blue shows her that you have very two important values as a man; confidence and humour.
At the same time, you also show that you understand social dynamics, in the sense that it should be YOU who was checking out HER ass, and not the other way around. This is great stuff.
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Written on Tuesday 11 Mar by Alex Kay
This is part two of the 5 tips from 5 women series.
In this part I have asked the exact same 5 women about what a bad kiss is and as a summary I’ll write up the mistakes you can avoid making.
I asked them:
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Unfortunately, a bad kiss can be found in many variations. Personally, I think that the worst one is what I call the spinning propeller - where his tongue is just splashing around, not knowing where it’s going.
Written on Sunday 2 Mar by Alex Kay
This is the number one question I get asked most of the time - right after the question on how to win her back.
And it’s difficult to answer. How do you get over your ex girlfriend?
I guess that we have all been there at some point in our lives.
Relationship starts. Everything’s good. Suddenly, everything isn’t so good. And you break up. That’s life!
I have had my share of it, so I speak from experience here.
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Written on Monday 25 Feb by Alex Kay
In this post, I am going to review the popular ebook Double Your Dating.
I have talked about it before here at the blog in my post called “Get Started Being with the Women You Desire and Live a Better Life“.
Just like I said there, this book was the first I read of its kind, and I owe much of my dating success to it.
The first edition of Double Your Dating was written by David DeAngelo in 2001. Back then, it outlined all the techniques he himself had used to do just that, double his dating.
He wrote it as a kind of personal diary for his dating life, and then sent it around to a few buddies.
But these few buddies soon became many, and the book was quickly spread to men all over the world.
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