My NO-BULLSHIT Philosophy on Ex Girlfriends
I don’t like bullshit. I don’t like telling you what makes you feel good but doesn’t help you. I go for the results, and let the results speak for themselves.
Through the years I have been in contact with hundreds of guys who have had a hard time after a break-up. My approach to helping them has changed over the years with experience, but this is my philosophy right now on the matter (and the one that works every single time if done right!)
Before anything, you need to figure out whether you want her back or whether you want to move on. This is a crucial step and the one that will determine everything you do from now on, so don’t take it lightly. Read this and this for help with the decision.
If you want to get her back, you need to be sure that it’s for the best for both of you. Once you’re certain of that, you have to do everything in your power to get her back. That’s not an excuse to be desperate, though. There are 3 Toxic Texts You Should Never Send Your Ex, and you can find out what they are right here.
If you want to get over her, you need to be really honest with yourself right from the beginning. You have to enjoy your life and do things that you genuinely enjoy. Except for practicalities at first, you also have to abstain from all contact with your ex – and that’s valid for her contacting you, too. Learn more about the no contact rule here. Socialize more than you’re used to and get out of the house. Have fun, learn something new and be good.