How To Die as a Happy Man – Do What You Love, and Do it WEell
I predict that in your life, you have around 25.000 days to live. That’s 613.000 hours.
Almost half of your life you’re asleep. That’s 400.000 hours left.
Working. 250.000 hours left.
And driving. 200.000 hours left.
OK, I admit it. I almost made these numbers up. Of course some people drive to work more than others, but the numbers do have one foot in reality. What do you spend your time on?
I know for sure that very few people lay on their death bed saying “Oh darn, I wish I worked more and spent less time on my family”.
And I also know that all this is nothing new. But it’s the mindset that’s important here.
Time doesn’t wait
That’s OK because I don’t wait for time
If you must do something, do it now. You never know if there’s a tomorrow.
Sometimes things need some thought and reflection to work. The important thing is just to do things with a goal in mind.
I try to live by the rule of always doing my best. I don’t really have any time to waste, so why not do what I can while I still can?
Every workout, every interaction, every everything, I do my best. And if it’s not good enough, I learn from it.
And that’s one of the biggest wonders in life. We’re all on a journey, life is one big education. As I’ve said before, if you learn something from something, you haven’t “lost” a thing. You have grown.
And that’s what “positive thinking” is all about for me; seeing the good side of the bad. Every coin has two sides you know…
Wait! How does all of this relate to dating?
Now I’m going to come out and say something a little provoking: Everything relates to dating!
Because dating in itself means nothing. Let me explain: We all have some higher goal. For most people it is about being happy.
And that’s probably why you’re reading this. On some level, you want to be happy. Dating beautiful women is just one way to get there.
The core of most dating advice is to get your life handled. It’s a process, and learning “dating science” is one big development. On the way, you’re going to get other parts of your life handled too. It’s natural.
As a human, you’re smart enough to relate. You can see why A relates to B. Even if you’ve never encountered problem B, you can use the knowledge you gained from solving problem A to solve B.
In the dating world, it’s often called Inner Game. It’s the games that run inside of your mind. It’s how you react to new situations. It’s how you think and reflect. It’s the voice, not the words.
You can learn all of the lines and routines in the world, but there will always be something you’re not prepared to deal with. With all the lines and routines you can entertain her for 30 minutes… Then what?
Gaining the right beliefs and right mindsets is alfa-omega when it comes to getting the part of your life handled that’s called “Women and Se.x.”
Lately, there has been a shift in the whole “seduction community”. People have begun to realize that dating itself is only the tip of the iceberg. To get really good, you need to get your inner game handled. You need to get your whole life handled.
It’s really all about being a man. And maybe not just A man. THE man.
Do what you love, I know I do
One way to getting your life handled is to do things that you love. Don’t spend too much time on things that doesn’t mean anything to you.
Personally, one of the things that I do is to eat only quality food. I don’t spend time and money and things that I don’t like and that aren’t good for me.
I try to cook all of my meals myself, and I love cooking just as much as I enjoy eating.
And while I’m cooking, I listen to music. Music is also one of my big passions.
I don’t spend time watching TV.
When I workout, I love every minute of it. I don’t have time not to love everything I do.
Just reading through what I just wrote, I realize that I may sound like some hippie-jesus type that’s always 100% happy.
But that’s far from the truth. When I’m sad, I’m sad. Even when I feel bad, I do it with my best.
Being sick is a part of life. I don’t want to distract myself from it. When I’m sick, I’m sick. When you’re feeling bad, you kind of take a step back and review your life, and I think that’s fantastic.
When I workout, I also really like to feel the pain. I don’t want to distract myself from one of life’s joys – to live, and to feel that I am alive!
I really live through my emotions, and my emotions live through me.
So this is basically just a reminder to everyone: Don’t ever forget that you’re alive. You’re incredibly lucky to be so.
How about you?
Phew, that was a heavy post. I hope that it won’t be misunderstood. If there’s anything that sounds strange or something you’d like more info on, just ask. I’m open to any kind of questions!
And I’d also like to know more about you. What are your goals? How do you live? What do you spend your time on?
Let me hear your thoughts.
Ladies and Gentlemen, the comment section is now open!