help me out man!!

I need some serious help from you. I am 24 year of age just done my graduation and landed up in a cool job with a damn good profile, She is young,very hot and very sexy, she works two tier below me and greatest part is she doesn’t report to me actually her boss is equivalent to my position. We get to talk near water cooler and coffee machine. She works in the floor below me and we never had lunch together.

One fine day our office had arranged an offical picnic for all. Me and that girl had a good time together. And I asked her out!! ( all of a sudden, I don’t know why? May be I was highly excited and this is my first job ) and she kinda said no in a polite way. Any ways we exchanged numbers and she text me and call me out some times and so do I.

I know this girl likes me and I like her also, but I am aware now because she rejected my dating proposal although we have taken it cooly.

When she calls me very often and as about stuffs like How was your day and all.

What should I do?

I don’t want to ask her out again? If she said NO it will be all over the place!!!

And I don’t wana miss any opportunity to miss this chance because she is one of the hottest babe I have ever come across.

I need sincere help !!

JINX

No matter which project we are in, there is always a deficiency of these kind of cute girls over whom we can amuse ourselves :(

good to hear, thanks! :)

Guess that you’re right. I just need to develop the consciousness. :)

Stumbled!

you can always get in touch with me via the about page, where there is a contact form.

Anyway! Sounds like a great spot to meet women, and a great spot for some good old practice.

The best thing you can do is to serve her/them. This way it will most likely be easier.

It will also be easier if she isn’t with her mother, but she doesn’t have to stand in the way. If you play your cards right, she might actually help you.

When going for the number, be the funny/sexy waiter right from the beginning. You can actually start by introducing yourself. Maybe not by shaking hands, but by saying something like:

“Ladies, ladies! You sure look beautiful tonight. I’m Charles, and I’ll be your waiter for the evening. *pulls out chairs* Sit down and I’ll bring your menu’s right away”

Think “italian casanova” type of guy.

For the number, you could ask her to put it on the note when they pay. Something subtle and fun. You’ll work it out. Hell, if you do well, she’ll ask for yours!

I think you could get a lot of great ideas if you read David’s book Double Your Dating. There are a lot of good tips that you could use. Here’s the link:

Double your dating

You could also read the review first.

Good luck mate, and let me know if you have more questions!

Great to hear Ivy. Nice stories.

Tyler, appreciated.

No, it could potentially create some problems (if there was a *break-up* per se)

Thanks for all your comments!

I know a lot of people in my company who met while working there and are now married and still working for the same company… (in different departments)