There’s a lot of guy asking questions here, so I thought I’d share a little success story with you all.

My gf of three years left me a litle on three months ago, I was devestated, but I’ve spent the intervening period looking forward – exercising heaps,reading this blog, starting conversations with girls on the street, doing all the things that improve one’s self esteem.

There’s a SMOKING HOT girl at work who has ALWAYS flirted with me, but because I was with my girlfriend, I couldn’t reciprocate. This girl gave me her number over some BS/innocent pretext about 2 years ago, and becase I was with my girlfriend, I never felt the need to call her. This prticularly girl learned that I was recently single, and when we next chatted, she immediately deemed me her “drinking buddy” (which I think is womaneese for “Im single too. Lets dance”).

So, I went on a holiday for two weeks to get away from all the crap thats been going on – mental R&R. When I got back, I though “Hey, I got nothing to lose” and decided to text this girl and invite her out for a few drinks with a few mates of mine – just after-work drinks, no biggie.

She graciously accepted IMMEDIATELY.

Within an hour of joking about and treating her like a bratty litle sister, I had an invite to a New Years cocktail party out of town. Turns out she had been stalking my Facebook page, knew where I went on holiday, realised I had family there, and *just by coincidence* is going be nearby for Xmas/New Years.

So, our *innocent* night out ended up with her lipstick all over my shirt. We’ve since had a few more outings outside of work, about once a week, which have all gone really well.
Ask loads of questions gentlemen, dont reveal too much about yourself, and above all, remember some of the things she tells you and just subtly drop it in a conversation – it shows you were listing.

Body language, fellas is a dead give away: on all dates, this girl has been playing with hair, maintinaing eye contact, keeps touching my leg or arm, and her body has always been oriented my way. Last week, when we were out with with some work people again, I decided to try a little experiment: I returned from the bathroom and deliberatley sat at another spot at the table – BAM! Her body orientation moved too.

So, here I am, learning all about this big bad dating world and hell bent not to repeat the mistakes I made with girls in the past. Im not a Don Juan by any means, but thanks to advice I’ve read on this blog, I’m now getting girls’ numbers left right and centre. Most important, Im enjoying this little game I now have with this girl at work, which I’ve decided to pursue outside of work. One thing I’ve learned so far is the value of being a challenge and how important it is creating attraction – it seems to be working for me so far.

Now that I know this girl is interested, Im going to see what happens if I dont email or message her for a few days. Three steps forward, one step back, and all that.

I’ll let you guys know how it all pans out.

help me out man!!

I need some serious help from you. I am 24 year of age just done my graduation and landed up in a cool job with a damn good profile, She is young,very hot and very sexy, she works two tier below me and greatest part is she doesn’t report to me actually her boss is equivalent to my position. We get to talk near water cooler and coffee machine. She works in the floor below me and we never had lunch together.

One fine day our office had arranged an offical picnic for all. Me and that girl had a good time together. And I asked her out!! ( all of a sudden, I don’t know why? May be I was highly excited and this is my first job ) and she kinda said no in a polite way. Any ways we exchanged numbers and she text me and call me out some times and so do I.

I know this girl likes me and I like her also, but I am aware now because she rejected my dating proposal although we have taken it cooly.

When she calls me very often and as about stuffs like How was your day and all.

What should I do?

I don’t want to ask her out again? If she said NO it will be all over the place!!!

And I don’t wana miss any opportunity to miss this chance because she is one of the hottest babe I have ever come across.

I need sincere help !!

JINX

No matter which project we are in, there is always a deficiency of these kind of cute girls over whom we can amuse ourselves :(

good to hear, thanks! :)

Guess that you’re right. I just need to develop the consciousness. :)

Stumbled!