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Truth is, most guys don’t live the life they want.

Something is always wrong. Friends, work, family, girlfriends, whatever.

But let me tell you one thing: All of these problems seem so much easier to solve if you know that you can go out at anytime, and go up and talk to any girl you want, and get her number.

And not only that. You also know that you can get on a date with her. And you know that there’s a big chance that this date leads to more… Physical contact between you.

It’s really a fantastic feeling. And I want you to have it too!

That’s basically why I started this blog. To make you feel good about your life and help you live it to the fullest.

For most, a part of the good life includes being with attractive women.

Chances are, if you’re not with the women you desire now, you won’t ever be… If you don’t start working on it soon.

One way to “learn the skill of meeting women” is to get into the seduction community.


The seduction community

Wikipedia definition:

“The seduction community is a loose-knit subculture of men who strive for better sexual and romantic success with women through self-improvement and a greater understanding of social psychology.”

What I’m teaching is simply self-improvement.

So no, I’m not trying to manipulate women to have sex with me. Far from it!

How I got into the community

There’s a good chance that if you’re reading this post, you have also read one of my other posts called “Date Like a Movie Star Without Looking Like Brad Pitt“.

If not, I suggest that you read it before continuing here.

To quickly summarize though, the article is about how I was really down on life, and then one day met a great guy called Peter.

You could say that he inspired me to take charge of my own life, and change what needed to change.

One of the things I did was to go online and look for material like most guys do.

I found a book

In my search, I found a book. I found a lot of books actually, but the first book I bought on the topic of meeting women was a really important one.

I’ll review it in the next post here on the blog.

At first I just skimmed through it, thinking that this entire seduction thing was crap.

Body language was important when talking to girls? Looks didn’t matter (much)?

I didn’t believe it at all, it was like a whole new world.

I told Peter that I had bought this book, and believe it or not, he had too. A few years ago when he was “getting started” he had been looking for help, just like me.

Turns out it was an extremely popular book that has been helping thousands of guys all over the world for years.

Peter told me that I should go home and read the book again, with a less skeptical point of view this time.

And that’s how I got into the “seduction community“.


Reading the book with a new motivation

So I did what Peter said, I read it again.

Actually, I think I read it 5-6 times in just 3 days.

Because I felt that I was getting so confident, that I knew everything there was to know, I got out on a Friday night to “test my new skills”.

It went absolutely fantastic. I got three phone numbers that night. And two more the next day.

On Sunday, I set up dates for all those girls each on their own day in the upcoming week.

Some of them were cute, great to talk to etc., some of them weren’t.

But that really wasn’t the point; I could now go out anytime and get a date!

That Friday night, after I had finished my last date, it felt amazing. I just couldn’t stop smiling.

Actually I think I fell asleep with a smile on my face. And it continued through the whole next week.

People started asking me why I was so happy etc. but I just replied that I had finally started living.

In just a month or two, I had turned my life completely around.

If someone would have told me this a few months before, I wouldn’t have believed them. I would probably just have laughed and walked away, thinking “what a moron” or similar.

The people around me found me much more attractive because of my newfound happiness. Things went better at work, I had so much more fun with my friends, I had started talking to more people in shops and on the streets etc.

You could say I had started a “positive spiral”. All because of a change in mind; and a change in action.

The feeling that you can get a date whenever you want is just incredible.

In the following year, I got A LOT of dates.

But my plan was never to meet a lot of girls. Not at all.

Like most guys, I wanted to find a nice girl to make my girlfriend. A girl to walk with in the park, a girl to hold me warm at night, a girl to celebrate Christmas with, a girl to introduce to my family, you know what I mean.

But quality girls are hard to find, and that’s why I went on so many dates. It’s only a matter of chance before you find someone you really “click” with.

And as I had thought, after a few months, I found a really amazing girl. We were together for almost a year, and this was actually my first real relationship that I was happy with in my whole life.

But enough about me.

This post is about you.

How you can get started living the life you want

First of all, I’ll say congratulations. Just by reading this, you’re on the right path to get a better life (and start meeting more women).

That’s great. But we both know that you can get better.

My first suggestion is that you keep reading my posts.

As said earlier, I’ll review the book I talked about in an upcoming post. So stay tuned, and if you’re not a subscriber, I suggest that you subscribe to this blog now.

That way you won’t lose a single post, and you can read em’ whenever you want.

So that’s all great. My second suggestion is that you really read the review I post, and seriously consider buying the book.

And after buying the book, I suggest that you go out, and test out all the new material and techniques and cool stuff you have got.

Maybe you’ll have great success with it, maybe it’ll take a little time.

But when you get really good, all this doesn’t matter. You’re seriously going to have the time of your life, for the rest of your time on this planet. Not too bad, eh’?

So let’s call it a wrap for this time.

Stay tuned for the review, and remember:

It’s never too late to start living.


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14 thoughts on “Get Started Being with the Women You Desire and Live a Better Life

  1. Jason

    I like what you said above: that it is all focused on self improvement. Some guys just get lucky, gotta admit it. But if you want a great girl… great girls want great guys. Girls with hot bodies who exercise want men with hot bodies who exercise. Smart women love smart men. You have to acquire for yourself the very traits you want in a girl or it would never work out anyways.

    Can’t wait for the review!

  2. Alex

    Jason, I agree. For two people to really function together, you have to have the same conditions for your thoughts; the same world view.

    This does not always apply, but in general, it’s a good rule. If you just don’t agree on simple stuff in life, it’s pretty hard to live together.

    Unfortunately, you can’t live “off” love for the rest of your life, at some point, logic also sets in.

    Thanks for your comment mate, good one!

  3. Jan - queenofkaos

    I love this approach, if all men took it, the world would be a better place, LOL.

    Actually, it applies to women too. They should teach it at school, there would probably be a lot less divorce.

    I guess it all comes down to personal responsibility, if you want something, you need to work towards it and be ready for it :0)

  4. Alex

    Hey Raymond,

    So glad to hear that, and you’re absolutely welcome!

    Jan, haha, yeah I’m sure of it!

    I like your attitude on the subject, to get what you want, you also have to pay the price. Which really isn’t a price, because how can someone really appreciate something if they haven’t worked for it?

    Thanks for your comments :)

  5. Alex

    Aww, thanks Karen. I just love your kind words :)

    And you’re absolutely right about like attracts like.

    Thanks for your comment!

  6. Alex

    PreSchool Mama,

    Yeah, I have also come to that conclusion… Lots of women enjoy these posts!

    That’s great. Thank you!

  7. Tom Stine

    Nice post, Alex. I have to agree with the “like attracts like” comments. Actually, I heard a great piece of relationship advice at a retreat that went like this:

    “Instead of fixing yourself, learn to love yourself exactly as you are, warts and all. In the process you will naturally let go of some of your worst qualities/habits. And, you will energetically make yourself available to a woman who loves you exactly the way you are. And wouldn’t that be great?”

    Yeah, it would! Keep up the nice work, Alex.

  8. Alex

    Hello Tom Stine,

    I think that that’s a great quote, and this is the kind of behaviour that I believe in. It’s just one road of many to “inner success”, and for some, it’s the best one.

    Thanks for sharing, and thanks for your kind words!

    Your blog isn’t too bad either ;)


  9. JEMi @ InMyHeels

    wow, what a build up! Since I am already a subscriber, I’ll patiently wait to hear more about this book.

    Like does attract like and I like how you said “positive spiral” because if you think about it, people tend to concentrate on Murphy’s Law (Anything that CAN go wrong, will). It’s possible to attract positive attention and give off good vibes all starting internally and watch the positive spiral take action.

    See, now I never heard of The Seduction Community but I like what it stands for

    I’ll be sure to email this to a couple of my guy buddies :) Keep up the good work Alex

  10. Alex

    Hey JEMi!

    What a great comment to get :)

    I agree with everything you say about spirals and stuff, good stuff!

    Please don’t hesitate to push on my content to your friends, I’m sure it would help us both.

    Thanks for all your kind words :)

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