It's all in your body language,
If you can approach them from using eye contact and body language first, tell me how!
Mastering your body language, can make you send great messages better than spoken words. Boldness is not even needed.
Just let go of your worries. Say "I don't give a shit" in your head and let it flow.
No, I'm not that good just yet.
Trying all the time, but this little voice that's saying "JCZ, what in the world are you doing!" keeps nagging me. Yes, you're right: "I don't give a s***" is a good mindset.
It only comes with practice, though. Do what you want, and your mindset will follow.
That said, let me tell you guys something about this topic I started myself... Well, I kinda quit regularly talking to girls. There's a lot of reasons for that, the main ones involving a certain involvement with certain girls. When I have 'feelings' for a girl, no matter how shallow they yet are, it just doesn't feel very right to go out and do this type of thing.
However, I do feel that even what I've done the past few months makes a load of a difference. I'm just way more relaxed. Talking to strangers is no big deal anymore (though improvement still is welcome).
Anyone recognize this? What do you guys think about dealing with 'one-itis'?