How can we do it? How can we drive the girl of our desires crazy with lust? When you are attracted to someone, and you are out and about having a great time, the last thing that would be on your mind is "I should end the date soon as to show I'm a busy guy and I have priorities". And yet, forcing myself to listen to a friend's advice, I did it once and ended a first date far sooner than I would have wanted. The result? She was nuts about me. So much so that it got physical on the second time we saw each other. She was a respectable girl most certainly, but she wanted me and I have little doubt that it was because our first outing was short and very intense. This kind of attraction is hard to keep up though as you get to know her, because logically you want to see each other more and more, and then the next thing you know, she gets cold on the phone because you maybe stayed over a little longer and bored her or something.
What I am wondering is how do you keep a girl waiting for YOUR every call, your every shred of communication, and keep her thinking about YOU constantly? In essence, how do you make her clingy? On the flip side, how do you keep yourself from thinking about HER and from doing stupid things like calling after sending a text message that she hasn't replied to yet or wondering where she is and who she might be with?
I found that with a bit of willpower I can will myself into not caring what will happen next, but only temporarily. Mostly I hope things will go well and I sometimes find myself fantasizing about the future with the girl (it bothers me I do that, just so you all know). Yet, I can't, despite my efforts, maintain this at all times, I can't NOT be clingy sometimes. Which is what I'm hoping we can all help ourselves with.
What is the perfect balance of push and pull that drives a girl crazy?