thanks for the input fellas... i have absorbed everything u guys said and decided not to wish her...i think it is about time, when i just forget about her all together..step into a new phase in my life and start fresh...though she will be in my memories for a long long time, but she won't cause me any unhappiness, cuz she is no longer my source of hapiness...thanks again to everyone...
Lesson learned from this episode of my life is: enjoy it, don't get hung on any particular thing may it be human or a non human (tangible things) cuz they can be taken away from you at any time, and specially, never make anyone your ONLY source of happiness, unless that source is within yourself...these are my two cents, and when i have kids i'll be sure to give them this philosphy of life, that i had to learn the hard way..
cheers.