Hey John,
wow man. Sorry to hear that - but maybe, as you said, it was for the best.
Now at least you have time to focus on other things (and girls, if that's what you want), but I understand that you need some time to find yourself again. Tough times don't last forever, and it seems like you know that.
Anyway, just let us know how it goes... You seem like a great guy, so don't hesitate to ask for anything.
Best of luck.
Alex
