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[Crusader]

Okay, so it has been four months since my girlfriend (soon to be fiance) broke up with me.
I've dated other girls. I was in a short relationship, which I ended a little over a week ago.
And I find that I don't just still love my ex, but, I want to get back with her.

I've moved on from the pain of the break up, and I want to be with her, again.

I wrote her a letter, telling her how I feel about her (but not asking for her back), how I feel about her best friend interfering with out relationship, and how I do hope that we can continue our relationship again in the future.

Does anyone think this is a good idea? Should I post the letter here for y'all to review?

[Manrevo]

I don't know how I feel about the letter. It feels just really..pleading and that might hurt you later on. Did you maintain ZERO contact since the break-up? Has she tried to contact you at all?

[Crusader]

Well, i didnt give her the letter. I just confronted her.

But, that didnt go well because she is convinced that I am telling everyone that she intentionally killed my baby. Which is not true.
Anyways.

I maintained the no contact rule to the best of my abilities. It was a hella hard, but i did it.

But, about a 2 months after breaking up with me, she started calling me.
Things went well. She even considered getting back together. But then she remembered why she broke up with me, and said no. But when I asked her why she broke up with me. What her reason was. She said she doesnt even remember.
Well, wouldnt that mean that it was anything important. It was probably a stupid reason.

But yeah...

I still love her with all my heart. I won't lie. I was going to ask her to marry me, back before she broke up with me. I was ready for that life long commitment.
But, now, I'm moving on with my life.

I'm even talking to another girl. Who I am waiting to text me back. She's busy babysitting 2 kids right now though.

[Manrevo]

I know it's mad late now, but I think some of this will still apply.

The fact that she called you back in two months to reconsider and then saying no just basically means she's not doing as well she thought she would. If she can't even tell you why she broke up with you, she doesn't deserve a second chance at all. It just sounds like a girl who can't deal with relationships. You should be happy that you didn't marry her.

We all do stupid and desperate things. I guess that's only way to appreciate how far you've progressed is remembering the absolute low points.