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Brent G

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How do I Attract a Best Friend for Dating purposes?
« on: September 28, 2009, 07:14:29 PM »
Today, I was outside at the mall today, shopping for news clothes, I bumped into one of my girl AS friends. One of them really got me attracted to them.

She was optimistic, cheerful, postivie and very entertaining. I knew her for almost seven years. A long tyme ago, she wouldve been the last choice to date. And now, as time changed, she's free frunm braces and has a new fit body i just got blown away now.

From being single and gaining the eye of interest, she seemed like a good choice.
However, I'm afraid of her seeing me still as a best friend.
I always told myself to avoid dating best friends. It just leads to trouble.
But now this whole attraction from her is affecting me alot. Its really getting to me. How do I attract her to me? I'm curious on what would happen if we dated for awhile...
Any tips and suggestions?
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Scott D

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Re: How do I Attract a Best Friend for Dating purposes?
« Reply #1 on: September 29, 2009, 04:52:30 PM »
If you're already stuck in the friend zone, it will be difficult to break out of. It's possible, just not very likely. If you want to give it a go, your first thing to do is spend more time with her. Ask her to hang out with you and some friends one day. Then the next time, ask her to see a new movie with you. Don't try to force a relationship, because that could quickly ruin whatever friendship you have now. You have to take it slowly, and when you think she might be attracted to you, go for the kiss.

Or an alternative thing would be this... if you're ever hanging out with one of her friends, casually drop a line like "Man, [she] looked really good at the mall the other day. I wonder if she has a boyfriend." Don't tell her friend to ask her if she likes you or anything, but make sure you have some interest there. Undoubtedly her friend will tell her about it, and then if she thinks it's worth a go she'll make sure you know about it.

It's a touchy thing, Brent. Patience is the most important part.
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Re: How do I Attract a Best Friend for Dating purposes?
« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2009, 09:29:07 AM »
I've had two situations with best friends in which I had gotten so comfortable with them that I told them they were like sisters to me... Right after saying that, both of the girls realized they liked me. I don't know what it was, but I think it had to do with genuinely feeling very close to them and being unafraid to be touchy as well. Touch her when you feel like it, make no excuses, just be very, VERY friendly and likely she will start liking you. You'll both feel close to each other and you wont be able to help but fall for each other. Just make sure to let her know how comfortable you are with her, how much fun you have with her and so forth. Treat her as if she were your sister, she'll come around  ;D

If you get close enough with her that you can honestly say it then you'll be fine
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