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[Crusader]

Well, I approached her today, after 4 months, and said that we should give each other another chance.
She said no.
She is mad at me because she believes that I am going around telling everyone that she intentionally killed my baby!
Um, no... people asked me what was wrong. I told them that i was having bad re-occurring dreams of when she had to get an abortion. Not that she intentionally killed it! But we had to get it because:
1) It was an accident, and we were 16 at the time.(years ago)
2) We couldn't support by ourselves. And our parents would have left us on our own.

So yeah, I was shot down today.
But, oh well... I'm moving to Dallas anyways next month.

Update: I needed this actually. I needed her to be a bitch to me one last time, in order for me to move on.
Now, I feel free. Yeah I cried after I left. But, once I got my 5 minutes of "GOD WHY ME" out... I grabbed life by the balls, gathered my dignity and cheered "IM FREE!".
Now I'm talking to my ex from three years ago, who broke up with me because her best friend lied about me, telling her I called her a bitch. Which never crossed my mind to even say. I wasnt even mad at her.
But, back in october, we made up during a beach get together for all of these german exchange students visiting our school.
We've been in contact (as friends) ever since. I've been her counselor when she needed real help with her ass hole boyfriends.
Heh, it's funny how when your not the one who is in the drama, you see everything clearly, and think straight. But when you are a part of it, you have no idea what to do and look up sites like this one. 
No offense to anyone though.

So yeah, I got a date set up between us.

[Anthony Parkes]

Ah man, it's great to see you bouncing back up! You take care of that other girl work on building attraction.
Honestly man, you would have gotten back with your ex and it would have been a nightmare for another X months or years. I think it was just so complicated, it wasn't doing you any good. You deserve better than your ex. Yeah it hurts on the short term, but in the long run it was best for you.

You're right, it's always much harder when you're in on the deal. When you're outside, it's always plain obvious. Have fun man, and enjoy your freedom!

Anthony

[Crusader]

Well, I think it's all mainly because she has a new boyfriend, and she's falling for him.
Which doesnt hurt or bother me. I'm glad that she is happy. He better not be an ass hole though.
If he is, I am not going to do anything for her (unless he gets abusive you know). Because I cannot be there to take care of her anymore.
Hell, she doesnt even remember why she broke up with me in the first place. So, it was obviously not something important or bad. 

But, she was a bitch to me. She believes that I am still stalking her. And that i was in her house, when I gave her the key to her house when she broke up with me. And, I am smart enough not to break into someone's house. And she believes that I am going around, telling everyone that she intentionally killed my baby when she was a month pregnant.
(She had a miscarriage, and I was just so devastated, I didnt want to believe it. So, my mind made up this story which I believed for 2 years, where she got an abortion because we couldnt support it. It put my mind at ease. But, being a little over a month into the pregnancy, time had taken it's toll down in there if you know what I mean.)
I was having a re-occurring dream of that time, and people noticed that I was not doing so well because of it. When they asked what was wrong, I told them about my dream, and how it really happened; trusting them not to go off blabbering. Well, I was wrong, and the people I trusted told amanda I'm telling everyone she killed our baby intentionally.

But yeah. I guess I needed her to be a bitch to me again, to show me that I don't need her in my life.
So yeah, I'm done, and talking to someone else.

[Scott D]

You said the most important detail regarding exes and their new boyfriends: if they come crawling back to you, you have no obligation to do anything to help. She is not your responsibility, so let her direct her future wherever she sees fit.

As for those people who went exaggerating the story you told them in confidence, they sound like flakey bitches you should start avoiding (if you haven't already!) None of us need two-faced people like that in our lives.

Overall glad to see you are moving on, and it's awesome you scored a date with that other girl. Don't try to move too fast though or she might end up running away like the last one.

[Crusader]

Well, the last one didnt run away because we were moving fast.
We were together for 3 years. She just realized that she love me like i did her.
She changed.

But yeah, this girl I am talking to right now, is actually my ex from before Amanda.
Her name is Brittani. She broke up with me because her best friend (yes, another best friend situation) lied to her, saying I called her a bitch.
I never said that, and it never even crossed my mind.

But yeah, she broke up with me a few days after I realized that I loved her.

We made up back in October. We were both at the beach with a bunch of friends and german exchange students we were both hosting.
While there, we started talking. I asked her how her friend was, and she said that she is long gone because she realized who this girl really was. I told her what really happened back when she broke up with me, and that her friend had lied.

Since then, we've been... light friends. I've been there for her a lot though, as a ear, and shoulder. I've saved her from a few bad boyfriends; showing her their real intentions with her.

And now that I am single, I decided to ask her out.
She has a boyfriend, who she is breaking up with because she always puts bear before her. In fact, he always puts her second to EVERYTHING. Literally.
So, she's going out with me next week. But first, she's ending her relationship with her boyfriend.

[Crusader]

Well, the last one didnt run away because we were moving fast.
We were together for 3 years. She just realized that she love me like i did her.
She changed.

But yeah, this girl I am talking to right now, is actually my ex from before Amanda.
Her name is Brittani. She broke up with me because her best friend (yes, another best friend situation) lied to her, saying I called her a bitch.
I never said that, and it never even crossed my mind.

But yeah, she broke up with me a few days after I realized that I loved her.

We made up back in October. We were both at the beach with a bunch of friends and german exchange students we were both hosting.
While there, we started talking. I asked her how her friend was, and she said that she is long gone because she realized who this girl really was. I told her what really happened back when she broke up with me, and that her friend had lied.

Since then, we've been... light friends. I've been there for her a lot though, as a ear, and shoulder. I've saved her from a few bad boyfriends; showing her their real intentions with her.

And now that I am single, I decided to ask her out.
She has a boyfriend, who she is breaking up with because she always puts bear before her. In fact, he always puts her second to EVERYTHING. Literally.
So, she's going out with me next week. But first, she's ending her relationship with her boyfriend.