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Brent G

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Say Sorry or Quit?
« on: July 13, 2009, 09:26:57 PM »
New gf that I thought was going to be the "one" isn't the "one"
I talked with her in my other topic "NEED ADVICE"
We arugued today
Before the arugment, I was just peacefully asking questions about if she liked to read and stuff like that
Randomly, she calls me annoying? It made no sense??
I asked how i was annoying, she said, I was being childish???
n She's My same age, we are teenagers! And she is saying I should be older???
Does that make sense??
She said me saying this is annoying "I usually never talk on msn, and if I did, i never talk much, but jus because I am, suddenly I'm annoying" I'm proving a point. How does that sound childish? Does it?
Anyways, I told her im done with her. Being so-called childish is one of a few other things are more reasons I should break up with her.
Like another example, We talk, She says she loves talking to me, but thinks we should stop talking cause we somehow have nothing to talk about??
But for some werid reason, we talk for hours and hours??? Does that make sense.
But however, she has a great good side. We have alot in common, we talk almost seriously the same way, we understand each other most of the time. We just connect. But this is just what makes us disconnect.
So what should I do guys, Reconnect or stay disconnected, Say sorry for wut i said, n try and get her back OR seriously quit???
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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #1 on: July 13, 2009, 10:39:51 PM »
I think this one is still salvagable, maybe wait a couple of days and try talking to her again. You gotta be confident  and cool about it though, don't let her see you upset!
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Brent G

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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #2 on: July 14, 2009, 09:11:05 AM »
So, I should go back with her????
Moving on is also a good thing 2 also, should I do that
or just really go back with her?
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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2009, 10:04:47 AM »
Try going back with her, it has not reached the point of no return yet. If you don't try, you will have too many regrets. Good luck :)
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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #4 on: July 14, 2009, 12:20:26 PM »
Oh, that's not cool, man... (I mean the situation you mentioned in your first post, and not one of the answers, of course) Well, you know what they say about a precise match. Two people who are very much alike won't necessarily become a good couple.

Er, about what you'd do best? Man, that's mostly up to you. What do you think of this? Does she being a good match for you mean more to you than the things you don't like? What does it feel like? Does it feel wrong?

Also, what I try to do when emotions attempt to take over (which is OFTEN, I'll admit!) is try to analyze exactly what's happening. Kinda like what Alex said, don't loose your cool. "So, she basically says so-and-so. Does that mean...?" And then I'd ask her about it.
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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #5 on: July 14, 2009, 10:46:36 PM »
Well, I tried getting to talk with her again, 2 ask questions, to see if she wanted 2 continue breaking up. I know you are suppsoed 2 do no contact, But I have 2 get some kinda of answer.
Well, I guess I got mine, I called three times and waited till the ringing went to message. She dosen't want to talk to me.
So, she'll probably come back on msn tommrow or facebook. I could try the thing over again there
Or I can just take that as my answer and Move On
What should I do, people??
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Re: Say Sorry or Quit?
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2009, 12:28:27 AM »
Since she did not answer you go to no contact.
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