[levis21]

I met this girl out last month who I know through the friend of a friend and she ended up coming to stay at my house, nothing happened we just cuddled and kissed. We then arranged to go on a date which we did and exchanged texts saying that we had a good time etc. Since then I have seen her out a few times and we have kissed but we haven’t been on a second date. We arranged one but she then cancelled as couldn’t make it. We said we would do something later this week. I text her yesterday to arrange this and have had nothing back. Should I call her or just leave it? I like her and don’t understand why she would say yes to go out if she didn’t want to especially as there is a strong chance we will bump into each other out as from a small town. What do people think?

[Alex]

Arrange it with her casually when you meet up anyway. That's probably what I would do. If you can't wait, just call her

[Scott D]

I'd just be patient, otherwise you'll seem needy. If you still don't hear from her, invite her to hang out with some of your friends, like "Hey I'm going to a movie with ____ and ____, you're welcome to join us if you're up for it!" The setting will seem more casual so she won't feel too pressured into anything and you won't seem too hung up on her, almost like it was an afterthought to invite her. And if nothing comes from that, leave it be. Just my opinion of course.