Category Archives: Wuss

Rome Wasn’t Built in A Day… And Other Things You Really Don’t Want to Hear

Read on if you're brave enough Read on if you're brave enough

A different kind of title to a different kind of post. Clever, huh? On this one, I’ll speak freely. More than usual. See it as my summer gift to you.

You are a man.

And so am I. So stop apologizing for it. I see it every single freakin’ day – men walking around like pussies, looking into the ground and blaming everyone but themselves for their unsuccessful lives.

It is ALL your fault.

I know that this doesn’t sell. And I know that it’s not what you want to hear – but it truly is. You HAVE to start to take responsibility for your own life and for your own actions.
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Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction – Only for Amplifying it

Read this before bringing flowers to a first date Read this before bringing flowers to a first date

10 years ago, if someone asked me “should I bring flowers on the first date?” I would have said “yes!” without hesitation. Today I discourage it.

I thought that by giving a woman gifts, and by complimenting her on her looks, I would make her like me.

Oh boy, was I wrong. I just didn’t get it at the time. Date after date, I made the same mistakes over and over again. Continue reading

Why Bad Boys Get All the Hot Women, and Nice Guys Don’t Even Come Close

Why do bad boys get the good girls? Why do bad boys get the good girls?

A bad boy is sexy. There’s something about that sly smile; that look in his eyes. He just turns women on wherever he looks.

He moves like an alpha male in the animal kingdom: Relaxed and confident. Almost too relaxed. Almost too confident.

So what exactly defines a bad boy?

In its most simple definition, a bad boy is someone who works outside the norms of society. Continue reading

Stop Being Boring

Are your friends calling you boring? Are your friends calling you boring?

No one wants to be bored, do they? Of course not. Then why is it that I see guys every single day boring their girls like crazy? I just don’t get it. They do absolutely nothing that could stir her up. They say nothing that could even be interpreted as funny.

They say she’s looking good. They are being polite. All that boring stuff that your momma told you to do.

I am not saying that being polite or giving compliments is bad by itself, but when you do this stuff, usually you’re a very specific type of man. Continue reading