10 years ago, if someone asked me “should I bring flowers on the first date?” I would have said yes without hesitation. Today I discourage it.

I thought that by giving a woman gifts, and by complimenting her on her looks, I would make her like me.

Oh boy, was I wrong. I just didn’t get it at the time. Date after date, I made the same mistakes over and over again.

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A bad boy is sexy. There’s something about that sly smile; that look in his eyes. He just turns women on wherever he looks.

He moves like an alpha male in the animal kingdom: Relaxed and confident. Almost too relaxed. Almost too confident.

So what exactly defines a bad boy?

In its most simple definition, a bad boy is someone who works outside the norms of society.

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Today I want to talk a little about being boring.

No one wants to be bored, do they? Of course not. Then why is it that I see guys every single day boring their girls like crazy? I just don’t get it. They do absolutely nothing that could stir her up. They say nothing that could even be interpreted as funny.

They say she’s looking good. They are being polite. All that boring stuff that your momma told you to do.

I am not saying that being polite or giving compliments is bad by itself, but when you do this stuff, usually you’re a very specific type of man.

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