How to make sure that your girlfriend NEVER wants to leave you
How to make your girlfriend choose you over anything and never ever leave you… I’ll admit it. That’s a pretty bold claim. But nonetheless, it is what today’s article is going to teach you.
This is a subject on which there could be written so much that it could fill a whole library of books… And there has. But that’s NOT what I want to do today.
Dating “experts” often make it too darn complicated. It really doesn’t have to be rocket science to get a great girl and keep her.
Because that is what you want, right?
How do you keep your girlfriend when all she wants is freedom?
Two days ago, I received a devastating email from a guy named Lamar outlining his relationship’s current situation. He had been with his girlfriend since they were 16, but now that they are into their young twenties, she has expressed a want for being single again.
Sad thing is that Lamar doesn’t feel the same way – he thinks that she’s the one, and that he isn’t missing anything by being with her. Quite the opposite, actually. He thinks that if he were to be single, he would immediately search for a relationship such as the one he already has.
Should you sleep with your ex girlfriend?
If you’re thinking about seducing your ex girlfriend (because you’re going through a dry-period, perhaps?) think about these 7 reasons why you shouldn’t, first.
- It will bring back old memories
Sleeping with your ex girlfriend is bound to make you once again think of all your old memories of you and her. That time at the beach, your first kiss, you know what I mean. Even if you just try to do one last “hit ‘n’ run”, the memories will come flashing back some day.
- It’s not going to feel the same
Spending a night in her bed will never feel the same as it once did. What made the sex special is most unlikely gone, and sleeping with her will most likely not be much different than sleeping with any other girl.
A Guide to what to do when your ex contacts you
It’s inevitable that it will raise some questions inside your mind whenever an ex contacts you. And by far the most common one, and most trouble-some-one, is “Why?”
“Why now? What did she want?”
And that leads to you thinking about all sorts of possibilities, like if she wants to get back together with you.
Before you continue thinking these thoughts, I urge you to take a step back and assess the situation. I’ll hold your hand the whole way, so don’t worry ;)
Should I remain friends with my ex?
I often get the question: ”Should I be friends with my ex-girlfriend?” and to that, I have two answers. The short one is a blatant ”no”, and the longer one is a ”…maybe”. But it depends.
Read on if you want to know to whom I give each of the answers – and why…
The ”straight NO!” answer
If you aren’t over her at all, being friends with an ex-girlfriend can be very tough. The situation often goes something like this:
Getting the girl you deserve
In my experience, what guys ultimately want when it comes to dating is a fantastic girlfriend. Sure, some guys enjoy dating a lot of different women, having several casual relationship etc., but what the majority wants is actually a girl who likes them for who they are, who they can hang out with and have fun indefinitely and who turns them on and makes them want to be better men.
So with that said, I feel like there is a need for helping you find that special girl and then also keeping her.
How to get a really cute girlfriend
A lot of men have been asking me almost the same question lately, and it goes something along the lines of “I don’t have a problem getting dates with girls, but I have a problem getting them to stick around and keeping them interested. How do I keep them intrigued, and how do I get it to go as far as to evolve into a relationship?”