How to stop sitting around waiting for a call from your ex girlfriend
I have done it many times: I and my girlfriend broke up, now she’s my ex, and I am kind of over her.
I still think about her, though, and somewhere, I still want her.
Not in the way of driving to her place with a bunch of flowers and confessing my love, no, it’s more like I hope that one day she’ll call me and tell me that she also still wants me.
There’s just one thing… The day never comes.
Being in that is place is what I call the “grey land”, and it’s a very dangerous place.
Learn how to become as attractive as a bohemian painter
Who doesn’t want to be sexy as hell, exceedingly attractive and absolutely confident?
This article will tell you how. And it’s easier than you probably thought. But not easy in the ‘no-effort’ way.
No, it’s more like easy in the ‘simple to write- harder to do’ way.
The title of this post was inspired by the relatively new Woody Allen movie “Vicky Cristina Barcelona”. Actually, the whole post is inspired by that movie. You’ll see why in a minute.
"How do I get over my ex girlfriend?"
This is the number one question I get asked most of the time – right after the question on how to win her back.
And it’s difficult to answer. How do you get over your ex girlfriend?
I guess that we have all been there at some point in our lives.
Relationship starts. Everything’s good. Suddenly, everything isn’t so good. And you break up. That’s life!
I have had my share of it, so I speak from experience here. Continue reading
My thoughts on Valentine's day
Newspaper columns, blog posts, small talk at the local café; it’s everywhere.
Valentine’s Day. It seems that you have two choices regarding this “special” day in the middle of February. Either you love it, or you hate it.
The arguments usually go something like this:
Typical Negative side: “You should be able to do romantic things every day, and not rely on some specific commercial day.”
Typical Positive side: “It reminds us of love” or “is a great reason to do something special.”
I really see where both schools of thought comes from. But I can’t say I agree more with one than the other. Continue reading
What do you say when she says "I love you"?
A dating question from a reader:
Today I am going to give Michael some advice on a little “love declaration” issue.
“I’m in this 4-week relationship, and not everything was going smooth. We were eating out, and during chit-chat, she then suddenly asked me: “well do you love me?” We never actually declared our love before, so I was a bit stunned. What is the appropriate response, if you are not totally head over heels yet?”
Well, this is a tough one. As I don’t know your past – how you met, how you behave together, if you have had sex etc. it’s hard to give a concise answer to your problem Michael. But I am going to give it a try. Continue reading