So what would you like to see?

I’m thinking personal stories (with comments, maybe?), interviews, tips, tricks, techniques, mindsets, concrete action-plans, and all that’s in between.

But I would like to hear what you think. Give me what you got; what would you like to read? Or what would be redundant?

Of course, if I use your suggestion, I’ll send the book to you for no cost whatsoever once it’s published.

How’s that for taking two minutes of your time?

So just write a comment below, stating what you would like to see in the ebook on ‘getting over your ex girlfriend’. I would really appreciate it.

Thanks a lot!
Alex

I am going on a vacation here over the holidays; snowboarding in the alps.

That’s all great, but it has one downside: I have to let you, my dear readers, behind. I know, I know… It’s sad. But I am going to miss you :-)

I will be back at the 15th of february, but don’t expect too much of me that day after a 20+ hour busride through Europe!

So untill I get back, I have a suggestion for you:

Come on over and join the new forum!

I have hinted at it a few times already, but it has now officially opened. There are already a number of threads you can post to, or you can simply introduce yourself.

So even though I won’t be there for a couple of days, I strongly suggest that you’ll hop on over and see what we’re all about.

There are already a couple of mighty fine guys posting on the boards, so don’t be shy!

Anyway, I hope you keep the JKTC spirit up over there while I am away.

Here’s that link one more time: The JKTC Café.

Stay cool guys,
Alex

They tell you to do this and do that, and in reality, it’s a lot of talk with no action.

And see, I am a man of action. I stand up to my word.

So I am going to take the stress of your shoulders and put it on mine to make 2009 your best year ever.

You’re probably thinking that it sounds too good to be true, or that it’s just not possible. But let me tell you this: It’s not only very possible, it’s going to happen!

Until now, I have devoted a lot of time and energy to this website. But I figured that if I want to really help you, I’d have to step it up.

So this is what I am going to do:

• To the hundreds of commentators on the how to get over your ex girlfriend post, I am going to be writing an ebook. And not only for them, but for everybody who has trouble getting over their ex’s… And trust me, it’s more common than you think.
• For the ex girlfriend crowd, I am also going to write more blog posts. I feel that it’s a very important topic, and that I have a lot to add.
• Not only am I going to be writing more posts on getting over your ex, getting on with your life etc., but I am also going to bring in guest writers from all over the world. You have seen it before on the site, and as you know, a second opinion can often bring a new perspective to things.
• As always, all of the articles will be of the highest quality possible. Simply, the best dating related articles are to be found on Just Keep The Change dot com. You have my word for it. And if you find someone who’s better? Let me know so I can collaborate with him (or her) to give you the best value possible.

I will also

• Start up a discussion board (forum) where not only I can help you, but you guys can also help each other. Because I know that I have a lot of intelligent and smart readers who want to help, and this is truly a case of 1 + 1 = 3. Bringing a lot of smart people together equals maximum value for everybody involved. How’s that for karma?
• At any time of the day you can email me with any question that you want. I’ll give you my best possible answer, guaranteed. Emails from JKTC readers will also be my #1 priority when opening up my inbox, so you’ll get your response fast (as those of you who have emailed me already know…)
• I will listen to you. If you want anything, don’t be afraid to ask. I will do my absolute best to accommodate your needs.

I know that this was a lot of promises, but what you should know is that I will keep them all. It’s my mission, and I’m going to succeed.

I know it’s a big responsibility, but well! Bring it on baby, I’m ready :-)

A lot of very interesting stuff will happen over here at Just Keep The Change, so stay tuned… You will not be disappointed.

Your friend,
Alex

So I know a lot of you subscribe to my RSS feed – that’s great, and I really appreciate it. If you’re not a subscriber, you’re really missing out. Anyway…

I have started an email list. And I think you should sign up for that one too.

There is going to be published stuff on the list that will never reach the blog – mostly question and answers, in-depth articles and all kinds of other cool stuff.

So take 7 seconds and give me your first name and email adress here:

This post is being published while I’m hanging out in India. I’ll make a quick report when I get home.

So, I didn’t plan too well ahead, so I have to admit it; this post is really rushed.

I just wanted to link to some of the blogs that I have been reading, so you don’t have to hunger for great content while I am away…

Hope you find it useful!

David Wygant – A wonderful guy with a great and fun blog on dating. Lots of tips, thoughts, podcasts and videos on here. A must read for me!

Stronglifts – A blog on strength training. Mehdi’s advice is all about getting stronger, and living a healthier life. Also lots of free videos on how to correctly do exercises.

Urbanmonk – Albert writes on spirituality and personal development. He shares a lot of great stories, and generally has a lot of wise things to say. Comments are a must, too! A man with a great and open heart :-)

Yangtown – Another “spiritual” blog, but with a more masculine approach. Emotional strength, opening your heart, confidence, integrity, power. Also offers a great ebook for free.

TSB Magazine – “A modern man’s resource”. I read this mainly for the entertainment, but they do offer some great posts once in a while.

These are the 5 blogs that I read most regularly at the moment, but it changes a lot. I think I have like 80 blogs in my feed reader, so I read a lot.

Hope you’ll enjoy these, and I’ll respond to all comments and emails when I get home around the 18th of July!

Have a great summer everyone,
Alex

I know what kind of issues most of you have, and I also know how to help you.

That’s why I have created the Beginners Guide.

Simply put, it’s a page where I have grouped my articles under subjects, I am going to have some links to other resources (books, audios, videos etc.) and other stuff that might help you guys.

So hop over and check it out!

If you have any ideas, feel free to write them here in the comments.

I am starting a dating ‘question and answer’ feature here, and well, for me to give the answers, I need some questions first.

So, if you have any dating/sex/women related questions at all, I’ll give my best shot at answering them for you!

Ask me whatever you want, I promise I won’t laugh.

Just fill out the contact form with the subject line “Dating Q & A“.

Hope to get some great questions!

Take care until next time,
Alex

PS. Girls are welcome too.

I just wanted to steal a minute of your time to say that I won’t be writing anything over the Christmas.

I am going to Sweden, and I know that most of you won’t have too much free-time to read anyway. So have a fantastically merry Christmas everybody, I’ll see you at about the 28th december.

That’s all great, but to really fulfill my goal, and make men better, I will now focus on the topic that I enjoy writing the most about. Dating. This is where most guys really struggle, and this is also a topic in which I can draw a lot of personal experiences, and really help you out with your troubles and problems.

I will still write about fitness, muscle, food, mental health, and everything else men and lifestyle related, but from now on, it may be with a little “dating twist”.

So stay tuned, the fun has only just begun ;)

While I have your attention, I can tell you that I have been working on a post about feeling down for a few days now. I am pretty sure that you are going to find it useful, so check back here tomorrow.