I was recently interviewed by Scott Valdez from the ClickMagnet dating blog and the interview is now online: Play now!

You can listen to it by clicking here, or you can download it and listen to it later by right-clicking the link and choosing “save destination as”.

Here’s the text (written by Scott) that accompanies it:

“Alex Kay is a dating expert, writer, and prolific blogger who’s known for his relationship advice website, JustKeepTheChange.com, and particularly for helping men back on their feet after a tough breakup.
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Hey guys! A few days ago, I got an email from my friend Adam who in turn recently had been getting an email from his ex-girlfriend, Charlotte. I thought that the email and his response was so good that I wanted you guys to see it.
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Note from Alex: This is taken from my ebook The Ex-Girlfrend Solution. It helps to lay the foundation for the rest of my teachings by discussing how getting over an ex before getting back together with her can actually be very beneficial to both you and her.

It is almost impossible for me to count the amount of guys I have spoken to about their ex-girlfriends over the years, but it sure is a lot. If I should do a recap, the theme that has occurred the most is this:

Girl dumps Guy, Guy is confused, Girl is equally confused so she keeps calling him, Guy misinterprets the calls and wants her back, Girl finds someone new and Guy is hurt all over again.

This happens very often, and it is a terrible situation. The situation has many variations, but it usually ends the same way. And the worst part of it all is that the man in this has absolutely no power and no control. The girl is in charge, and the man is left to be her marionette puppet.
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Note from Alex: This is just a short chapter from The Ex-Girlfriend Solution answering a common question that I get: “Should You Tell Your New Girl About Your Ex?”

At some point, you will meet a girl. It’s inevitable. And it’s also inevitable that you and her will talk about your previous lovers and relationships. So, what do you tell her about your ex-girlfriend, who caused you so much pain?
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As you might remember, I proposed to write a book about getting over your ex-girlfriend, and well, now I have!

It has been a cool process, and I’ll definitely both write more books and update the ex solution later on. (If you buy it now, you’ll get updates for free – for the rest of your life!)

Anyway, check out the official page about the ebook here:
The Ex-Girlfriend-Solution
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Words from Alex: This is a sample chapter from my ebook “The Ex-Girlfriend Solution” called “A logical progression of emotions – an explanation of the four phases you will be going through.” Read more about the book and purchase it by clicking here.

The loss

When we lose something we care for or somebody we love, we can classify it as a loss. A loss is a loss, no matter how it happened or what it revolves around. The differences only lie in the intensity of your emotions and the time it takes for you to heal.
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I guess that I have hinted at it before, but now it’s official: I’m writing an ebook on getting over your ex girlfriend.

So what would you like to see?

I’m thinking personal stories (with comments, maybe?), interviews, tips, tricks, techniques, mindsets, concrete action-plans, and all that’s in between.

But I would like to hear what you think. Give me what you got; what would you like to read? Or what would be redundant?

Of course, if I use your suggestion, I’ll send the book to you for no cost whatsoever once it’s published.

How’s that for taking two minutes of your time?
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