No. 3 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating“.

Most guys lean in when talking to and approaching girls. They do it subconsciously, but by leaning in, you’re not only making yourself “lower status” than her, you’re also showing off insecurity, which is a bad thing. So here’s my simple tip for today:

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No. 2 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating“.

Have you ever wondered at what point you should call a girl after getting her number? Call too soon and you will be seen as desperate and needy,
call too late and she will have lost interest, or forgot you.

I guess that your goal for this call will be to get a date with her, so of course your choice of words, voice, tone etc. will matter more than the timing,
but you know, the devil is in the details. You might as well maximize your chances.

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No. 1 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating“.

It was a beautiful day. You were walking on the street with a friend, when suddenly you see a gorgeous woman. There was nothing to do, you just had to cross the street and talk to her. You felt nervous when approaching her, but at the end of the conversation, you managed to get her number. You have come far my friend, but there is still a long way too go…

All this was yesterday, because you followed my advice on (not calling on the same day).

You now sit with the phone in one hand, her number in the other. You want to ask her out, spend time with her, anything. But how do you ask?

You dial the number, and a sweet voice answers the phone on the other end.

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