Category Archives: Dating

The 12 Undeniable Rules of Successful Dating

Practice the rules and reap the benefits! Practice the rules and reap the benefits!

There are no rules when it comes to dating. Make up your own. Do what works for you. Don’t do what some dude on the internet tells you to do. Take it into consideration, and then take it from there. Got it? Good.

Although there are ‘no rules’, it is generally a good idea to follow some ideas and some principles. Here are 12 of them for your reading pleasure.
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Writing the First Email – How To Meet Women On Online Dating Sites

How to write the first email to a girl on a dating site How to write the first email to a girl on a dating site

Note from Alex: Another guest post, this time from a good friend of mine – Sebastyne from Australia. She has a lot of experience when it comes to online dating, so take what she has to say seriously! Sebastyne, the word is all yours.

As Alex is concentrating on offline dating tips, I offered my help in the online dating arena, as that happens to be my specialty. Continue reading

11 Ways to Have a Fantastic Date with the Girl of Your Dreams

Fantastic dates - The Alex Kay way Fantastic dates - The Alex Kay way

Hanging out with a girl you really like, having fun, walking around hand in hand; aren’t that one of the best ways to spend your time?

I think so. I think that a really fantastic date (no matter the “outcome”) is one of the most beautiful things in the world.

And you can have more of them. It’s really not that hard. If you have met the girl, which is the hardest part, I’ll take care of the rest. Read on soldier!

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How To Date a Cute Girl from Work without Losing your Job

If you ever thought about dating a girl from work, this one is for you If you ever thought about dating a girl from work, this one is for you

53% of men is eyeing up a colleague. That figure includes you.

But a lot of these guys don’t take any action, because lets be frank; we don’t want to embarrass ourselves in front of the whole company.

And you might lose your job. Maybe she might. Maybe you like it the way you can talk friendly to each other right now, and you don’t want any sour feelings between you. Continue reading

Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction – Only for Amplifying it

Read this before bringing flowers to a first date Read this before bringing flowers to a first date

10 years ago, if someone asked me “should I bring flowers on the first date?” I would have said “yes!” without hesitation. Today I discourage it.

I thought that by giving a woman gifts, and by complimenting her on her looks, I would make her like me.

Oh boy, was I wrong. I just didn’t get it at the time. Date after date, I made the same mistakes over and over again. Continue reading

What Darwin Knows About Getting Laid That You Don’t

Old Charles was quite a charmer Old Charles was quite a charmer

Today I want to talk about a topic that really fascinates me – the correlation between dating and evolutionary biology.

As a human, basically and looking at the big picture, you only have two goals in life. And that is to survive until you can reproduce yourself (and then do it).

Now there are lots of factors in both of these goals, but on paper it shouldn’t be too hard. As a man, you just have to have access to women. And have a working “tool”. That’s it. Continue reading

10 Good Reasons Dinner Dates Suck as the First Date (And What to do Instead)

Dinner? Oh my... Dinner? Oh my...

Besides a lot of questions on relationships, I am also getting quite a few questions on dates. Seems like most guys handle all the stuff in between the two pretty good?

Nonetheless, today I want to talk about the subject of dinner dates.

A dinner date is the most common type of date in the world today – and that’s both its positive and negative side.

What I mean by that is that the dinner date is very predictable. You kind of know what you get, and the only real difference in one is whether you get a kiss at the end of the night or not.

What you do know though, is that it’s going to drain your wallet pretty quick, especially if you go on lots of dates. Continue reading