A dating question from a reader:

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Steve needs some advice for his date sunday:

“Hi Alex, First of all, great site - I absolutely enjoy reading every new post. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Here’s my question: I’m going on a date Sunday, and I’m way more nervous than usual. I think it’s mostly because I’ve never even seen the girl in person before - a mutual friend set us up on the date - I’ve only seen pictures of her.

Usually I’ve met the girl before so I know we have some type of connection/common interest, etc. With this girl I have no idea what she’ll be like. Any advice or tips?” Thanks man! - Steve

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A dating question from a reader:

Today I am going to give Michael some advice on a little “love declaration” issue.

“I’m in this 4-week relationship, and not everything was going smooth. We were eating out, and during chit-chat, she then suddenly asked me: “well do you love me?” We never actually declared our love before, so I was a bit stunned. What is the appropriate response, if you are not totally head over heels yet?”
- Michael.

Well, this is a tough one. As I don’t know your past - how you met, how you behave together, if you have had sex etc. it’s hard to give a concise answer to your problem Michael. But I am going to give it a try.

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Hey guys,

I am starting a dating ‘question and answer’ feature here, and well, for me to give the answers, I need some questions first.

So, if you have any dating/sex/women related questions at all, I’ll give my best shot at answering them for you!

Ask me whatever you want, I promise I won’t laugh.

Just fill out the contact form with the subject line “Dating Q & A“.

Hope to get some great questions!

Take care until next time,
Alex

PS. Girls are welcome too.

Forget about every “routine” you have ever read, forget about “pick-up lines”, and let me take 2 minutes of your time to demonstrate to you, the best way to meet (and attract) women.

It’s actually really, really, simple.

Have you ever gained eye contact with a woman, and you both smiled? It may have lasted less than a second, but THIS IS human attraction in a nutshell. The thing that most guys do wrong in these situations, though, is that they DO NOT TAKE ACTION.

I have witnessed it too many times. A man and a woman standing in line in a supermarket. Eye contact. Smile. Bam, they both feel it. But none of them do anything. A “hi” or “hello” is enough.

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Who wouldn’t love to be the guy that every girl stares after? You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney to be attractive in women’s eyes, although it would help, it isn’t necessary. You just have to have a certain attitude to life; that’s all.

In this post I’m going to give you 12 Effective (and Slightly Badass) Ways to be the Sexiest Guy in the Room.

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If your date went well, there’s a big possibility that you asked her if she wanted to come inside. Or maybe the date took place in your apartment, it doesn’t really matter.

What matters is what you do after you have turned her on. You can be the sexiest guy in the world, but if your apartment looks like trash, it will be very hard to “convince” her to stay.

It has happened to me a couple of times. A cute girl in my apartment. We kiss, I put on some music, we kiss some more. After a while she has to go to the bathroom, and when she gets back, she is suddenly in a rush to leave.

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Today I will share a secret with you. If it seems like you can’t get any dates, I am pretty sure that this secret, if implemented right away, can help your success with women tremendously.

Unfortunately, most guys don’t have a clue about women and dating. But knowing this simple little thing will instantly put you way above the rest.

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No. 4 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating”.

When guys are out meeting women on a Friday night, what many are looking for is a one night stand.

It’s a dream for many men to walk in, talk to the most stunning woman in there, and walk home with her.

Nothing wrong with that, today I just want to discuss why it perhaps is better if you went for her phone number.

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Everyone remembers their first kiss. Or their last kiss. Kissing is something that everyone loves, and if done right, it can be almost as fulfilling as sex.

So in this post we’ll discuss if she’s ready to be kissed, and how to do it right if she is. Enjoy!

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No. 3 in the series “What everybody ought to know about dating“.

Most guys lean in when talking to and approaching girls. They do it subconsciously, but by leaning in, you’re not only making yourself “lower status” than her, you’re also showing off insecurity, which is a bad thing. So here’s my simple tip for today:

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