Besides a lot of questions on relationships, I am also getting quite a few questions on dates. Seems like most guys handle all the stuff in between the two pretty good?

Nonetheless, today I want to talk about the subject of dinner dates.

A dinner date is the most common type of date in the world today – and that’s both its positive and negative side.

What I mean by that is that the dinner date is very predictable. You kind of know what you get, and the only real difference in one is whether you get a kiss at the end of the night or not.

What you do know though, is that it’s going to drain your wallet pretty quick, especially if you go on lots of dates.
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In this post I’m going to talk a little about confidence and humour, how they can be combined, and how and when (not) to use them.

Asking a girl something like “Did you just check out my ass?!” just out of the blue shows her that you have very two important values as a man; confidence and humour.

At the same time, you also show that you understand social dynamics, in the sense that it should be YOU who was checking out HER ass, and not the other way around. This is great stuff.
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In this post, I am going to review the popular ebook Double Your Dating.

I have talked about it before here at the blog in my post called “Get Started Being with the Women You Desire and Live a Better Life“.

Just like I said there, this book was the first I read of its kind, and I owe much of my dating success to it.

The first edition of Double Your Dating was written by David DeAngelo in 2001. Back then, it outlined all the techniques he himself had used to do just that, double his dating.

He wrote it as a kind of personal diary for his dating life, and then sent it around to a few buddies.

But these few buddies soon became many, and the book was quickly spread to men all over the world.
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Truth is, most guys don’t live the life they want.

Something is always wrong. Friends, work, family, girlfriends, whatever.

But let me tell you one thing: All of these problems seem so much easier to solve if you know that you can go out at anytime, and go up and talk to any girl you want, and get her number.

And not only that. You also know that you can get on a date with her. And you know that there’s a big chance that this date leads to more… Physical contact between you.

It’s really a fantastic feeling. And I want you to have it too!
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Yesterday I got this really big urge to go get a McFlurry at my local McDonald’s… I know, I know. I’m bad, but it’s not my fault McFlurry’s are soo good?

Anyway, I got my ice cream, and sat down at a table to enjoy it.

I was almost finished, when this really amazing smell walked right by my nose.

I looked up, and found myself drooling over the most stunning girl I have ever seen (in a McDonald’s). She was around 1.76, long blonde hair, and a really mysterious and sexy face.

I quickly threw the rest of my McFlurry away, and walked right behind her up to the counter.
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Bald, middle-aged men dating super hot model-type women. You see it everyday.

Whenever I used to encounter this, I always thought that the man had to have a lot of money, or power, or was really famous in some special circle that I had never heard of.

One day, I felt really depressed about my life. I had been dumped by my girlfriend just a few days ago, and to be frank, life sucked. Big time.

Emotionally, I had hit rock bottom. Ground zero. Whatever you call it nowadays.

I felt like I had nothing to lose, so one day when I saw a really “normal” looking guy, with a smoking hot babe by his side, I decided to go ask her something:

“What are you doing with this regular guy, when you could get any guy on the planet?”

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A dating question from a reader:

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Steve needs some advice for his date sunday:

“Hi Alex, First of all, great site – I absolutely enjoy reading every new post. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Here’s my question: I’m going on a date Sunday, and I’m way more nervous than usual. I think it’s mostly because I’ve never even seen the girl in person before – a mutual friend set us up on the date – I’ve only seen pictures of her.

Usually I’ve met the girl before so I know we have some type of connection/common interest, etc. With this girl I have no idea what she’ll be like. Any advice or tips?” Thanks man! – Steve
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A dating question from a reader:

Today I am going to give Michael some advice on a little “love declaration” issue.

“I’m in this 4-week relationship, and not everything was going smooth. We were eating out, and during chit-chat, she then suddenly asked me: “well do you love me?” We never actually declared our love before, so I was a bit stunned. What is the appropriate response, if you are not totally head over heels yet?”
- Michael.

Well, this is a tough one. As I don’t know your past – how you met, how you behave together, if you have had sex etc. it’s hard to give a concise answer to your problem Michael. But I am going to give it a try.
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Hey guys,

I am starting a dating ‘question and answer’ feature here, and well, for me to give the answers, I need some questions first.

So, if you have any dating/sex/women related questions at all, I’ll give my best shot at answering them for you!

Ask me whatever you want, I promise I won’t laugh.

Just fill out the contact form with the subject line “Dating Q & A“.

Hope to get some great questions!

Take care until next time,
Alex

PS. Girls are welcome too.

Forget about every “routine” you have ever read, forget about “pick-up lines”, and let me take 2 minutes of your time to demonstrate to you, the best way to meet (and attract) women.

It’s actually really, really, simple.

Have you ever gained eye contact with a woman, and you both smiled? It may have lasted less than a second, but THIS IS human attraction in a nutshell. The thing that most guys do wrong in these situations, though, is that they DO NOT TAKE ACTION.

I have witnessed it too many times. A man and a woman standing in line in a supermarket. Eye contact. Smile. Bam, they both feel it. But none of them do anything. A “hi” or “hello” is enough.
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