Once in a while, you meet someone who has got that little bit of extra. It’s pretty hard to define, she just has it. She is amazing and beautiful. She makes you smile.
She can turn up everywhere, anytime. At a party where you see her dancing and laughing with her friends like a silly little girl. On the streets where she drops something and looks all helpless. At a supermarket or in a shop where she just looks like she has it all together, rocking a super-sharp business suit and high-heels.
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Note from Alex: This is a guest post from a woman. Her name is Nicola Lees, and she has been so kind to write about first dates and what to do (and don’t do!) on those. She gives some advice you can’t go too wrong on, so I’ll lend the word to Nicola…
As a single woman in London, I’ve been on a few first dates, most of them bad. They ranged from a guy who lied about his job (I didn’t care about his job, but I did care that he’d been dishonest), to one who was so nervous he couldn’t speak, and a man who neglected to inform me that I was on a date – I thought I was going to a business meeting. Dating, as far as I was concerned, was torture.
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There are no rules when it comes to dating. Make up your own. Do what works for you. Don’t do what some dude on the internet tells you to do. Take it into consideration, and then take it from there. Got it? Good.
Although there are ‘no rules’, it is generally a good idea to follow some ideas and some principles. Here are 12 of them for your reading pleasure.
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Note from Alex: Another guest post, this time from a good friend of mine – Sebastyne from Australia. She has a lot of experience when it comes to online dating, so take what she has to say seriously! Sebastyne, the word is all yours.
As Alex is concentrating on offline dating tips, I offered my help in the online dating arena, as that happens to be my specialty.
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Hanging out with a girl you really like, having fun, walking around hand in hand; aren’t that one of the best ways to spend your time?
I think so. I think that a really fantastic date (no matter the “outcome”) is one of the most beautiful things in the world.
And you can have more of them. It’s really not that hard. If you have met the girl, which is the hardest part, I’ll take care of the rest. Read on soldier!
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Odds say that 53% of men is eyeing up a work colleague. That includes you.
But a lot of these guys don’t take any action, because lets be frank; we don’t want to embarrass ourselves in front of the whole company.
And you might lose your job. Maybe she might. Maybe you like it the way you can talk friendly to each other right now, and you don’t want any sour feelings between you.
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10 years ago, if someone asked me “should I bring flowers on the first date?” I would have said yes without hesitation. Today I discourage it.
I thought that by giving a woman gifts, and by complimenting her on her looks, I would make her like me.
Oh boy, was I wrong. I just didn’t get it at the time. Date after date, I made the same mistakes over and over again.
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Today I want to talk about a topic that really fascinates me – the correlation between dating and evolutionary biology.
As a human, basically and looking at the big picture, you only have two goals in life. And that is to survive until you can reproduce yourself (and then do it).
Now there are lots of factors in both of these goals, but on paper it shouldn’t be too hard. As a man, you just have to have access to women. And have a working “tool”. That’s it.
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Besides a lot of questions on relationships, I am also getting quite a few questions on dates. Seems like most guys handle all the stuff in between the two pretty good?
Nonetheless, today I want to talk about the subject of dinner dates.
A dinner date is the most common type of date in the world today – and that’s both its positive and negative side.
What I mean by that is that the dinner date is very predictable. You kind of know what you get, and the only real difference in one is whether you get a kiss at the end of the night or not.
What you do know though, is that it’s going to drain your wallet pretty quick, especially if you go on lots of dates.
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In this post I’m going to talk a little about confidence and humour, how they can be combined, and how and when (not) to use them.
Asking a girl something like “Did you just check out my ass?!” just out of the blue shows her that you have very two important values as a man; confidence and humour.
At the same time, you also show that you understand social dynamics, in the sense that it should be YOU who was checking out HER ass, and not the other way around. This is great stuff.
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