So we all know that movies can be great entertainment. With a friend, with a girl, with yourself, whatever.

But they can also be an incredibly useful learning tool – you just have to know what you’re looking for.

So I have dugg out 2 movies for your to watch.

The guys in them all have one thing in common – they are naturals when it comes to attracting and seducing women.

Casino Royale

The latest James Bond flick. Babes, action and poker. What more can you ask from a movie? James bond is über cool from start to end, and he delivers a lot of invaluable lines and a lot of cocky attitude. On top of that, Daniel Craig also plays the role surprisingly well.

Pay speciel attention to… The scene where James offers to drive that spanish-looking girl home. He takes her out to his car, drives around in a circle, and ends up… sleeping with her. The whole driving scene is priceless, I can’t remember exactly what he said, but I do remember laughing my ass off.

The scene with Vesper (Eva Green) at the check-in at the Casino (Royale) also shows off some pretty good examples of the bad boy attitude. Their first meet up in the train is also great.

Daniel Craig’s clothing is also something to look out for. I’m not sure if you can handle the speedos, but the rest of it is top-notch. Laid back, cool and classy. I especially like the polo that he’s wearing while he’s in Italy – you can check it out here.

Ocean’s Eleven

George Clooney plans to rob 160$ millions, from a casino vault better protected than most nuclear silos. And gets Julia Roberts while at it.

Pay speciel attention to… Every scene with Brad Pitt. His attitude and lines are some of the best I’ve ever seen in a movie.

Every scene with Brad Pitt and George Clooney together. Take notice of their body language and the way that they speak. Long pauses added for mystery and coolness-factor.

The way that Brad Pitt always seems to be eating. His hands are never completely dead, always doing something.

The way that they use eye contact. Especially George Clooney when he is talking to his (ex) wife. Always warmth in his eyes and a sly smile on his mouth.

Basically every scene in the movie can teach you something, if you look after the right things at the right moments. Terry Benedict is also kind of bad ass. In a mafia kind of way. I like his style.

“Tess (Julia Roberts): You know what your problem is?
Danny (George Clooney): I only have one?”

Bonus movie:

Wedding Crashers

I just saw this today, and I thought I should share something with you.

It’s a technique Vince Vaughn uses when he is about to kiss a hot redhead for the first time.

The scene is at the beach, about half an hour into the movie.

It’s basically him saying that we’re all “one”, and therefor our bodies are all the same. He takes her hand and says that her hand is his hand… Bla bla bla, you’ll have to see the movie for the rest.

It looks pretty effective, I’ll have to try it out sometime.

Wedding Crashers by the way is hilarious, if you haven’t seen it, I suggest you do. Whether you care about a “kissing technique” or not.

So go out, rent the movies, and learn while you’re getting entertained. Simple as that.

Rock hard,
Alex

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In this post I’m going to talk a little about confidence and humour, how they can be combined, and how and when (not) to use them.

Asking a girl something like “Did you just check out my ass?!” just out of the blue shows her that you have very two important values as a man; confidence and humour.

At the same time, you also show that you understand social dynamics, in the sense that it should be YOU who was checking out HER ass, and not the other way around. This is great stuff.

It should, like everything else, be said with a sly smile and a small glimpse in the eyes. David DeAngelo calls it Cocky and Funny, and it really works magic.

Arrogant AND funny

Another example:
(While talking to a girl in a bar) “Hey, do you often pick-up and seduce guys at bars? Because if you do… I just want you to know that I’m not that easy. You would have to buy me at least… 3 drinks before I would even consider splitting a cab with you.”

But there is a fine balance between being just arrogant and being funny at the same time. When you neglect the funny part, you’ll look like a complete ass, and without the arrogance/confidence, you’ll probably look like a clown.

This kind of humour shouldn’t be used all the time, but rather be sprinkled out evenly throughout your conversation with a girl.

This way you can also ask her about more mundane stuff, and actually get to know her, without it being boring.

Example:
You: “So, what do you do to bring food on the table at home? You DO have a HOME, right? When I first met you, you kind of looked like a homeless girl… But now I’m more in doubt… That dress actually doesn’t look so homemade up front.”

(This should of course be said to a girl who looks absolutely stunning)

What goes through her mind

At first, she thinks that you’re just asking her what she’s doing for a living. Booooring! Most women are not interested in talking about stuff like this when you first meet.

But then you go about and make it funny, and the story gets a totally different end to it. You suddenly gets interesting to talk to, and you’ll probably get a much better answer to your original question (“what do you do”).

She’ll also see that you understand social value. You have the confidence and nerve NOT to compliment her right away on her looks, and on top of that, you make fun of her.

This might sound a little crazy, but women love this. Actually, what works with women is very counter-intuitive from what SHOULD work logically. If you haven’t realized this yet, I think it’s time to read some of my earlier posts, or to get started with David DeAngelo.

The formula is really easy:

Arrogance + Humour = Attraction.

And attraction is something I want to talk about another day.

Till’ then guys!

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