Comments on: Boosting Your Confidence To The Next Level: The Two Things You Need To Have http://www.justkeepthechange.com/boosting-your-confidence-to-the-next-level-the-two-things-you-need-to-have Dating Advice for Men Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:41:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Sebastyne http://www.justkeepthechange.com/boosting-your-confidence-to-the-next-level-the-two-things-you-need-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-15244 Sebastyne Wed, 22 Apr 2009 00:41:45 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=613#comment-15244 The group of girls plan has a few definite possibilities to failure. First of all, girls don't want to be treated as a group, they want to be individuals. Sometimes guys have approached my group, and asked each one of us to dance in the apparent order of hotness, which is a major turn off. If one guy approaches starting to talk to all of us at the same time, we know what he's about. He just wants to see if he could hit it on with one of us, so none of us will give him the green light - apart maybe from the most desperate one of the lot, and you don't want to go with her anyway. If you don't get your wing men to follow, my advice would be; forget groups, focus your resources... Unless of course you're super duper hot yourself, in which case I'd say; sit back, relax and let/make her/the most confident one of the group come to you. The group of girls plan has a few definite possibilities to failure. First of all, girls don’t want to be treated as a group, they want to be individuals. Sometimes guys have approached my group, and asked each one of us to dance in the apparent order of hotness, which is a major turn off. If one guy approaches starting to talk to all of us at the same time, we know what he’s about. He just wants to see if he could hit it on with one of us, so none of us will give him the green light – apart maybe from the most desperate one of the lot, and you don’t want to go with her anyway. If you don’t get your wing men to follow, my advice would be; forget groups, focus your resources… Unless of course you’re super duper hot yourself, in which case I’d say; sit back, relax and let/make her/the most confident one of the group come to you.

]]> By: Derek Kay http://www.justkeepthechange.com/boosting-your-confidence-to-the-next-level-the-two-things-you-need-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-9547 Derek Kay Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:08:47 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=613#comment-9547 I think you hit the nail on the head Victor. You're absolutely right, unless your friends have a history of approaching, you should never rely on them. They're much more comfortable sitting in their booth staring at the girls. Sad, really. I think you hit the nail on the head Victor. You’re absolutely right, unless your friends have a history of approaching, you should never rely on them. They’re much more comfortable sitting in their booth staring at the girls.

Sad, really.

]]> By: Victor http://www.justkeepthechange.com/boosting-your-confidence-to-the-next-level-the-two-things-you-need-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-9515 Victor Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:56:48 +0000 http://www.justkeepthechange.com/?p=613#comment-9515 Hey everyone, I would add, that from experience, you should never rely on your friends to back you up in approaching any girl or group of girls as they will often not get up to approach with you, and if they do, it won't seem like your idea any more. Think about it by yourself and maybe tell your friends that you're going to get the number of one of those girls. The resulting comments should pump you up for it if you need a bit of help, as personally, I kinda feed off of people telling me I'm going to fail. A better idea would be just not to involve the group at all, and go for it; in which case, even if you fail, your friends will most likely be jealous as well as respectful of you as they didn't have the balls to do it themselves. What do you guys think? Hey everyone,
I would add, that from experience, you should never rely on your friends to back you up in approaching any girl or group of girls as they will often not get up to approach with you, and if they do, it won’t seem like your idea any more. Think about it by yourself and maybe tell your friends that you’re going to get the number of one of those girls. The resulting comments should pump you up for it if you need a bit of help, as personally, I kinda feed off of people telling me I’m going to fail. A better idea would be just not to involve the group at all, and go for it; in which case, even if you fail, your friends will most likely be jealous as well as respectful of you as they didn’t have the balls to do it themselves.

What do you guys think?

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