Since you’ve found your way to this page, I guess you have an interest in becoming more successful with women.
For some it takes a month to get to the level that they desire. For some it takes 3 months, for some it takes a year. For me, it will take my whole life. I will never stop improving.
But it can be done. I did it, and so can you.
Since you have made a decision to really get this area of your life handled, read on.
For a jumpstart into all this stuff, I highly recommend that you get David DeAngelos ebook Double Your Dating.
For 19.97$, you’ll get a 90+ paged ebook, 3 bonus booklets and 5 interviews with dating gurus. Read my review here.
It’s a great “introduction” to all the new things you are going to stumble over in your journey to become the man you want to be.
The Ex-Girlfriend Solution
Since you found this site, chances are you are having some trouble with your ex.
(If you don’t, just skip this section and start reading up on the basics. Check out the articles below or the one’s in the sidebar)
I highly encourage you to check out my book called “The Ex-Girlfriend Solution”. It includes everything you ever wanted to know about getting over your ex and moving on with your life. It takes you right from the break-up to your new relationship, and it answers all the questions I get all the time, like “what to do if she wants to be friends”, “how to avoid being distracted by thoughts about her”, “how to fall asleep when I miss her” etc… Read more about it here!
Getting the foundations down
Read these articles to get into the right mindset, and change your old beliefs. Remember that most dating science is not logical.
Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close Bad boys get all the good girls. Remember the guys from Motley Crüe? Tommy Lee? Yeah sure they have money. But so do their girlfriends. Read this article and learn why the nice guy mentality just doesn’t cut it, and what to do instead. Clue: You don’t have to turn into an inconsiderable jerk. But you do have to take on some of the sexy traits that most badboys have.
Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction – Only for Amplifying it This article is all about gaining the right beliefs about what works with women – and what doesn’t. Remember to read the comments.
Start Being Brutally Honest with Yourself and Others Be honest with yourself and others. Simple in words. Hard in life. Be as a honest as you can, it’s the best gift you’ll ever be able to give!
Being a man
Being a man is a huge part of getting really good with women. It’s the contrasts in life that draws us closer, so if you want to be with a very feminine girl, you have to be a very masculine man. (basically)
Let me make this clear: Masculine (or alpha) does not translate to jerk. It’s more about being congruent, being confident, being passionate, being a good listener, being interesting, being interested, being open and being vulnerable.
Start out by living a life that you can be passionate about.
Hobbies are great, I have plenty. Start doing stuff that you love!
This will naturally make you interesting, and less dependant on the outcome in a general sense. This is truly attractive as you kind of take on the ‘I don’t care’ attitude. Not that you don’t *care* it’s just not that important, since you have a lot of great stuff to do anyway.
Approaching your first girl
Get started meeting more women and have more quality women in your life.
Doing that first approach
Read the articles below. Gain the right mindset. Gain the right beliefs. And then go out and do it!
Don’t get into complicated routines. One thing that has worked for me in the past was just walking up, saying: “Hey there! I’m kind of shy, but I’m trying to get over it… so I wanted to walk over and say hi. What’s your name?”
Try it and let me know what happens!
Here are a couple of articles that you might find interesting:
- Numbers are Great for Calendars – Not for Grading Girls!
- How To Meet and Talk to Girls 365 Days a Year
- How I Took a Girl Through Strawberry Fields at McDonald’s and Got Her Number
- A Fun Game You Could Play With A Cute Girl Tonight
- 2 Movies to Watch for Learning Sexy Body Language and Masculine Attitude
- 12 Effective (and Slightly Badass) Ways to be the Sexiest Guy in the Room
Approaching Girls and Getting Dates
- Do You make This Crucial Mistake when Calling a Girl for the First Time?
- Get Started Being with the Women You Desire and Live a Better Life
- Why Self Limiting Beliefs are your Worst Enemy when it comes to Approaching Girls
- The #1 Secret to Get More Girls
- How To Tackle A Blind Date
- 10 Good Reasons Dinner Dates Suck as the First Date (And What to do Instead)