Beginners Dating Guide - From Zero To Hero

Since you’ve found your way to this page, I guess you have an interest in becoming more successful with women.

Sorry, but this is not going to happen overnight. For some it takes a month to get to the level that they desire. For some it takes 3 months, for some it takes a year. For me, it will take my whole life. I will never stop improving.

But it can be done! So since you have made your decision to really get this area of your life handled, read on.

For a jumpstart into all this stuff, I highly recommend that you get David DeAngelos ebook Double Your Dating.

For 19.97$, you’ll get a 90+ paged ebook, 3 bonus booklets and 5 interviews with dating gurus. Read my review here.

It’s a great “introduction” to all the new things you are going to stumble over in your journey to become the man you want to be.

Getting the foundations down

Read these articles to get into the right mindset, and change your old beliefs. Remember that most dating science is not logical.

bad boys
Why Bad Boys get all the Hot Women, and Nice Guys don’t even get close Bad boys get all the good girls. Remember the guys from Motley Crüe? Tommy Lee? Yeah sure they have money. But so do their girlfriends. Read this article and learn why the nice guy mentality just doesn’t cut it, and what to do instead. Clue: You don’t have to turn into an inconsiderable jerk. But you do have to take on some of the sexy traits that most badboys have.

Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction - Only for Amplifying it This article is all about gaining the right beliefs about what works with women - and what doesn’t. Remember to read the comments.

Being a man

Being a man is a huge part of getting really good with women. It’s the contrasts in life that draws us closer, so if you want to be with a very feminine girl, you have to be a very masculine man. (basically)

Let me make this clear: Masculine (or alpha) does not translate to jerk. It’s more about being congruent, being confident, being passionate, being a good listener, being interesting, being interested, being open, being vulnerable.

Start of by living a life that you can be passionate about.

How would you feel if you knew that no girl would ever want to be with you? If there was no chance, EVER, that ANY girl would be able to be sexually attracted to you? Would you still be able to live a life of happiness and joy?

If yes, great. You’re on the right track! If no, you really need to start celebrating the small moments. Maybe you’re not passionate about your job? Fix it! Maybe you’re relation with your dad could be better? Give the old man a call!

You get the point. It’s all about getting your life handled.

Hobbies are great, I have plenty. Start doing stuff that you love!

This will naturally make you interesting, and not so outcome dependant. This is truly attractive, since you kind of take on the “I don’t care” attitude. Not that you don’t *care* it’s just not that important, since you have a lot of great stuff to do anyway.

Approaching your first girl

Get started meeting more women and have more quality women in your life.

Approach women on a daily basis

Doing that first approach

Read the articles below. Gain the right mindset. Gain the right beliefs. And then just go out and do it.

Don’t get into complicated routines. One thing that has worked for me in the past was just walking up, saying: “Hey there! I’m kind of shy, but I’m trying to get over it… so I wanted to walk over and say hi. What’s your name?”

Try it and let me know what happens!

Here are a couple of articles that you might find interesting:
(Updated regularly)

Beliefs

Cute Games

Body Language

Relationships

Approaching Girls and Getting Dates

Dates

Kissing