Be a Great Kisser – How To REALLY Kiss a Girl
Kissing and foreplay are just means to get to sex, right? WRONG. Sex is all about giving, and girls love foreplay. You really should too.
No woman in this world enjoys the feeling that their boyfriend is using her as a masturbation tool. He barely gets in before he “shoots”.
She’s not even sure he’s in before he’s out again. The lights go off, and they both go to sleep. You really want to be that guy?
Start taking a new perspective on sex instead: The perspective of doing it for her. Make it as pleasurable for her as you possibly can; I promise you it will be better for you too.
Foreplay and kissing
As I started out by saying, girls LOVE foreplay. And a huge part of great foreplay is great kissing. Learn how to kiss, and you’ll learn the whole art of pleasure and sex. Kissing is in many ways two souls connecting on a very deep level. You’re extremely vulnerable when you kiss. Closed eyes, close body contact.
A lot has been written on the subject of kissing (also by me), but there’s still a lot to be said.
The following is a “technique” that I myself have been using to great success. Success measured in pleasure for her, that is.
It’s all about the anticipation. You can use this if it’s your first time kissing a particular girl. You can also use it on your wife through 30 years.
It’s based on the assumption that girls love to be whispered in the ear. Everyone’s different, and if you know that she absolutely hates it, do not pass go, do not collect €300. But there’s a good chance she does. Give it a try if you’re not sure.
The “real” kissing technique
When you’re talking, hold the eye contact. Move a few inches closer, look down at her lips, and look back into her eyes. Give her a sly smile and hold the sensual eye contact.
Your words will start to matter less, you will speak slower. The both of you should be able to feel the sexual tension.
Lean in, moving slowly, and whisper the following words into her ear: “In a moment, I am going to kiss you like you have never been kissed before”.
Remember to whisper really quiet, barely hearable. And definitely only to be heard by her if there are anybody nearby.
Hold the eye contact after leaning back. Lower your chin, look at her lips, and look back into her eyes.
Keep talking a little bit, depending on her reaction. Go for the kiss whenever you feel appropriate. You’re totally in control.
To add some extra suspense and anticipation, lean in like you’re going to kiss her, but don’t. Pull back.
Mastering this move can seriously drive any woman crazy. Be ware of the consequences…
The kiss itself
All the anticipation and sexual tension in the world won’t make up for a lousy kiss. Sorry!
It can cover it, it can make it better, but not in a degree that matters. The kiss itself is what it’s all about.
5 Easy Kissing Tips
- The most important thing when kissing is to take it slow. Don’t rush anything, make every second count.
- Be really gentle and sensuous. Kiss the same way you would eat a big, red, delicious strawberry. Just slower. Taste every little bite, embrace everything.
- Don’t bring in mr. tongue in too early (or not at all)
- Add some gentle biting instead. The lower lip works best for this. Again, go with the “tasting something really nice” feel.
- Remember to use your hands while kissing. This is a big one guys. All girls love to have their heads held in some way while kissing. Hands through her hair (slowly, but with force and strength) is usually a winner. Feel your way through it, do what she likes. It’s all about making her feel secure.
I guess that’s it. Here are 3 other articles I have written on the topic of kissing:
5 Tips on Kissing Passionately from 5 Women 5 of my girlfriends speak up on kissing. Highly recommended!
The 5 Most Common Kissing Mistakes Men Make The don’ts of kissing.
How To be The Perfect KisserThe opposite. Some great comments, little old post though.
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I really appreciate it.
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