I was recently interviewed by Scott Valdez from the ClickMagnet dating blog and the interview is now online: Play now!

You can listen to it by clicking here, or you can download it and listen to it later by right-clicking the link and choosing “save destination as”.

Here’s the text (written by Scott) that accompanies it:

“Alex Kay is a dating expert, writer, and prolific blogger who’s known for his relationship advice website, JustKeepTheChange.com, and particularly for helping men back on their feet after a tough breakup.
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I often get the question: ”Should I be friends with my ex-girlfriend?” and to that, I have two answers. The short one is a blatant ”no”, and the longer one is a ”…maybe”. But it depends.

Read on if you want to know to whom I give each of the answers – and why…

The ”straight NO!” answer

If you aren’t over her at all, being friends with an ex-girlfriend can be very tough. The situation often goes something like this:
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In my experience, what guys ultimately want when it comes to dating is a fantastic girlfriend. Sure, some guys enjoy dating a lot of different women, having several casual relationship etc., but what the majority wants is actually a girl who likes them for who they are, who they can hang out with and have fun indefinitely and who turns them on and makes them want to be better men.

So with that said, I feel like there is a need for helping you find that special girl and then also keeping her.
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The situation is all too common. You have been having some contact with a girl that you like and you’re texting each other. Everything seems to be good, until suddenly it seems like she doesn’t respond anymore or if she does, she only replies in short sentences and only once in a while.

This post is not meant to fix the situation or to make her reply more often. No, this post is about you and about what you should do when a girl doesn’t respond to your text.
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I am a big believer of the power that our subconciousness holds. I believe it is the key to solving most, if not all, of our problems.

Whether it’s physical or psychological, if you know how, you can harness the unlimited power of your subconcious to deal with anything you want it to.

There are tons of ways to do it, with some being a lot more complicated than others. Today we will talk about the easiest one, and my absolute favorite: sleeping.
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A lot of men have been asking me almost the same question lately, and it goes something along the lines of “I don’t have a problem getting dates with girls, but I have a problem getting them to stick around and keeping them interested. How do I keep them intrigued, and how do I get it to go as far as to evolve into a relationship?”
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Hey guys! A few days ago, I got an email from my friend Adam who in turn recently had been getting an email from his ex-girlfriend, Charlotte. I thought that the email and his response was so good that I wanted you guys to see it.
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