Note from Alex: This is taken from my ebook The Ex-Girlfrend Solution. It helps to lay the foundation for the rest of my teachings by discussing how getting over an ex before getting back together with her can actually be very beneficial to both you and her.
It is almost impossible for me to count the amount of guys I have spoken to about their ex-girlfriends over the years, but it sure is a lot. If I should do a recap, the theme that has occurred the most is this:
Girl dumps Guy, Guy is confused, Girl is equally confused so she keeps calling him, Guy misinterprets the calls and wants her back, Girl finds someone new and Guy is hurt all over again.
This happens very often, and it is a terrible situation. The situation has many variations, but it usually ends the same way. And the worst part of it all is that the man in this has absolutely no power and no control. The girl is in charge, and the man is left to be her marionette puppet.
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Have you ever been in that situation where you were at this amazing New Year’s party, yet still, you weren’t really enjoying it?
I know that I have. And I know why… It was because I knew that on midnight, I had no one to kiss.
And when everyone around you has a girlfriend or is dating someone, that really gets smacked right in your face.
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Note from Alex: This post feautures a success story from Vincent Miller regarding how he got over his ex-girlfriend. As you’ll see, a lot of the basic ingredients from my approach where the things that helped him out the most. Read on to hear his story.
Vincent Miller: “Your website helped me out a lot. The initial fact that a bunch of people out there were feeling the same way I did made me feel better immediatly. I’m not saying that this cured the whole situation, but after the initial breakup, that helped out a lot.
There is no formula to where we can plug in numbers and find out how long we will be suffering. The suffering is a part of life and we have to go through it to make us the person that we will one day become. You have to look at that suffering as a way of personal growth. That is why I believe that time is the most important factor in getting over someone.
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As you might remember, I proposed to write a book about getting over your ex-girlfriend, and well, now I have!
It has been a cool process, and I’ll definitely both write more books and update the ex solution later on. (If you buy it now, you’ll get updates for free – for the rest of your life!)
Anyway, check out the official page about the ebook here:
The Ex-Girlfriend-Solution
It includes a video with me talking about some things that you should avoid, and also what to do instead.
Right now, the price is only $19. Just so you know… The price will jump to $27 on January 1.
Check it out right away!
Words from Alex: This is a sample chapter from my ebook “The Ex-Girlfriend Solution” called “A logical progression of emotions – an explanation of the four phases you will be going through.” Read more about the book and purchase it by clicking here.
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Hey guys, today I am going to bring an email from a woman’s perspective. She asked me how she should react to her old flame contacting her again, and I gave her some easy to follow and concrete advice.
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I just got the chance to interview Daniel Harper, one of my friends from the dating and self-help community. He recently wrote a killer ebook about how to use some of the principles of successful poker players to become better with women. In the interview, we cover the link between poker and dating, how Daniel has used his own theories, his thoughts on getting over an ex-girlfriend and what he’s up to next. Enjoy!
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This post is pretty simple and clear and to the point, and if you don’t get it, you never will.
Here are 3 tips to becoming the man you dream to be:
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Breaking up a relationship almost always leads to at least one of the parts getting sad, angry and left out. Even though it is possible to agree to break up and to take the decision mutually, there will always be one whom it hits a little harder than the other.
Trust me, I know the feeling. Several years ago, I went deep down into a hole after my girl at the time, Rebecca, and I broke up on a mutual agreement.
We both wanted it, but when I look back, the biggest reason that I did so was to not look weak and needy in her eyes when we discussed it – which in turn was exactly what I did when I weeks later sent her texts saying I wanted her back. That didn’t work out too well, since first of all, she had already begun dating another guy.
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Unless you are with her now, every man has at one point in his life lost his first love. For many men, it is a devastating experience that can be hard to overcome. But read on. This guide will show you exactly how to get over losing your first real love.
It happens to everybody. In fact, I don’t know anyone who hasn’t had their heart crushed at some point in life. It is more than normal. What isn’t as consistent over the whole line, though, is how the person with the broken heart tackles the situation.
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