Written on Tuesday 12 Feb by Alex Kay
5 Tips on Kissing Passionately from 5 Women
A good kiss is like a dance - the man has to be in charge, but if you don’t play well together, it doesn’t work.
That’s one of the things, 5 things, 5 of my girlfriends (friends that happen to be of the female gender) shares in the following short article.
I asked them the following question:
What’s a good kiss to you?
Pam:
A good kiss is concentrated, wet without being wet, focused, and surprising. A long kiss in the middle of making dinner, or washing clothes, just because, can be amazing. It’ll make a woman really happy. You could say that long kisses at surprising (not too surprising!) times can add a spark of uncertainty and sexual tension to any relationship.
Colleen:
A good kiss is a kiss which knocks your off your feet - The world is spinning around, and the feeling goes through your whole body. It could be said, that a good kiss, feels like you get an electric chock of love right through you. Uhhm!
Camilla:
A good kiss is when he holds my face in his hands. His fingers an inch or two up in my hair, holding it away from my ears. He’s decisive, but openly adventurous. His eyes are looking at me, my mouth and my eyes. He could say something hot; the kiss itself is soft and a little bit wet.
His tongue is just like the rest of him; adventurous and soft. It should be looking for my tongue to come out and play, but not for too long. It’s a kiss who demands a lot, but when done correctly, can knock any girl of her feet. Remember to not just kiss on the mouth, but also on the cheeks and the neck.
Ann:
A good kiss is a kiss where it’s obvious that the man feels you and accepts you as a whole - not just as a sex object. A good kiss builds up and plays with you. A good kiss touches the whole body, and is at the same time both sensitive and bold, and romantic and horny. A good kiss plants deep down in the stomach, and stays there, sometimes for days. A good kiss can make you dizzy.
Rosetta:
A good kiss variates in it’s hotness, length and wetness. Both round and forth and back. A good kiss doesn’t have to last for a 1000 years, make every second count instead. A good kiss is like a dance - the man has to be in charge, but if you don’t play well together, it doesn’t work.
What can you learn?
- Girls see kisses in a more romantic way than guys. Fact.
- It’s a lot more about the feelings behind it, than the kiss itself.
- Variate, be a little unpredictable.
- It’s not about the length, although a good kiss shouldn’t last less than about 10 seconds, it’s about what you do with the time.
- Be a little adventurous, be the leader.
- Use your whole body, especially your hands.
- Need more tips? Here’s My 18 Tips for a Perfect Kiss.
In a few days, I’ll also ask the girls what they define as a bad kiss. That should be interesting!
And now I’m going to ask you, my dear readers,
What’s a good kiss to you?
Image by peachknee
First, being a guy, I can say that I see a kiss as a very romantic action. So sorry but it is not fact that women see them more romantic than guys. But you do have it right that the feeling behind a kiss is what’s important. A good kiss to me is one that is not too wet, nor too dry. You feel an almost static shock that reverberates through your entire body. You know the feeling where you get a chill and the hairs on your arms, legs, neck, and back prickle. That’s the energetic feeling of the first kiss that sets the tone for an entire relationship. I’ve never known a woman to feel that, so it begs the question. Do women feel that, or is it just the man that does?
I’m no woman, but my impression is that women don’t necessarily value the kiss that leaves them completely satisfied as much as the kiss that leaves them badly wanting more. Sometimes I think they are turned on by how you withhold the full make-out and tease them just as much as how you kiss in the first place.
I’m curious if there are any ladies that would agree or disagree with me on that one.
Robert, I think that anyone can feel that. Women, men, teenagers, old people, anyone. I like your point of view on kissing, I agree! :)
Jason, I definately see what you mean, but when I asked these women, I think they responded more to kisses in general (and in a relationship) than “the first kiss”, or a more sensual kiss leading to sex.
But I think you’re right, holding back can be a great “technique”, it’s just not what these girls responded to.
Thanks for your comments guys!
Hi Alex,
I have to confess that I learn superb dating information from your every post.
Thanks for sharing it and enrich my life. :)
Hey Raymond,
You’re really welcome! Keep coming back, I have so much information left to share ;)
Hi Alex,
Great job! I’ve been really enjoying your kiss posts. :)
Keep up the good work!
Alex,
You have some really helpful tips on here. Much of it is very unique.
And.. it’s always a good thing to hear girl tips from girls themselves.
Nice post.
Zack
Mama, I’ll keep them coming for you ;)
Zack, yeah, I know… Funny enough, it kind of brings in another perspective to the mix.
Glad you’re enjoying the content, and thanks for your kind words mate.
Nice. During Valentines Day. Nice!!
Well, it was actually written 2 days ago Mwangi…
But yeah, sure, you can use it for whatever you want! :)
Great so I have given you a link from my Beautiful Moments squidoo page
Paul,
Thanks man! :)
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I’ve been with this guy and we kiss loadz and I neva gt bored!… Do yuu think yuu can tell if a relationship will last judgin frm the way he kisses me??… I mean he does it with so much passion and consideration 4 me and it makes me weak everytime I kiss him…
That’s amazing Grace!
No, I don’t think you can judge if a relationship will “hold” by the way you kiss. The future is the future, it’s (almost) impossible to predict.
But it does give a pretty good picture of your relationship NOW.
And to me, that all that really should matter.
Hope he continues to kiss you so good you get weak ;)
Take care.
nice picture… the man on the right doesn’t look too pleased with the situation :)
good article
I thought that was a little funny, too…
thanks Jim!